Need Your Advice

Be truthful to your girlfriend. Tell her about your ex gf asking for you to get back to her, but make sure and confirm to your girlfriend that she is your present and that nothing is beyond to what you feel for your ex. You need to inform your girlfriend ahead before your ex gf make some scandalous stories. Then, ditch your ex. Tell her the truth that you love your present girlfriend and that you are not going to break uo with her. Do not show her any impression that you still love her because she might misunderstood and misinterpret your actions. Hope it will work out.

It is entirely upto you to show the door to your ex-girl friend. You can tell her sternly and strongly that as you are already into a relationship with other girl, you can go back to her, it will amount to 'cheating'. You can advice her to look out for some other options. If you show your ex 'cold shoulder' and keep 'ignoring' her, she will probably come to know about your real intentions.

I think first thing that you should do is to tell all of this to your CURRENT girlfriend and ask her for advice. She may not necessarily be able to give you the most perfect answer to your problem but what it will do is let her know that you're being honest with her and you really like her and don't want to be with your ex-girlfriend anymore and this will ensure that no matter what your ex does, you'll not lose your current girl. As far as the ex is concerned, you just need to tell her in strong words that you're not interested in having a relationship with her anymore and she better leave you alone. Tell her WHY you don't want to be with her, be honest and tell her that you don't yourself with her and why YOU think that things won't work out between the two of you. Good luck.

You are not a child and you have the power to say the right from the wrong. Now you know this girl and you know your girl too. We can not advice you from here that you do this or that. You have to assess the sitauation and take the final decision. Wish you all the best.

Just tell the truth and your fellings to both your girlfriend and ex-girl.Your ex will eventually undersytand your decision.

First you should ask yourself that who is the one in your heart.If the answer is your ex gf,the problem will be solved easily.But if the answer is your current gf,then please do not give your ex gf any expectation and fantasy.You ought to refuse to talk to her,then leave her alone to think about herself clearly.I think everyone is wise including your ex gf.She will weight the things that she has done and find the wise way to live and love.

love1124, There is nothing wrong trying to help and supporting an ex in their times of distress or loss and like all decisions that we make - they come with consequences. You need to understand that your ex is behaving erratically due to her recent problems in her relationship and getting emotional is just the next normal stage. Just be firm, think nothing of it as to just talking and helping her. I do not think it could be that confusing or are you too over conscious to muddle the whole issue. If you do not let yourself into compromising situations and thoughts, then there would never be any issues at all with your current relationship and girlfriend. Staying committed also means being devoted whilst the other party is far distance away. I am sure you aren't so uncreative enough to have your firmness over your ex, just put on your thinking cap and put efforts into convincing her to accept the facts that the past is over and that you will be there to help and comfort only. Take care and have a nice day.

Hi love i donot think Their would be any problem with your eX comimng to you but you should just take interest in helping her to resolve her matter.And also make her clear your position and decision that you did not wants to have confusion with your present girl friend and like to honest with her. I believe if your present girl friend has trust on you she will never get confused and theirwill be no problem in your present relationship.

Sounds interesting! This kind of problems often exist in our daily life. It's really let a person feel upset and distracted. You can tell her you don't love her now directly. You don't rap to her even she comes to your office or home. Don't say any word with her. Don't answer her call. When after a long time, she will feel no significant and doesn't badger with you. Of course,you can tell your new girlfriend and try to consult her how to solve this problew(This aim is to let her know you love her and don't want to get back with ex-girl).Wish it can be helpful to you.Best regards to you!

Well,i think you must let you current girl know your ex,cos that's honest.And you also can phone your girl and take her to meet your ex.You must let the ex face the true that you two don't come back before any more.And congrate she to find someone fit she best.

Number one when your ex calls for advice don't give her any advice. And the reason is because of what has happened to you. For they think you are still interested. I myself might take the call to see what he would want but after that I would tell him I have no concerns of your problems so deal with them yourself. Sorry to tell you this but you opened up your own can of worms with this lady in talking to her about her so-called problems which may have been a scam the whole time.