Do you get along with your sibling(s)?

Hmm... I would say that it could be the gender.. =) Do your other sister get along with the brother? Maybe it's the brother.. =p~ Just kidding.. But have you ever gone out with your sister in law alone without your brother? Just interested.. =) Thanks for sharing your story, syain1972! =)

I see... So the problem really is the brother, I guess.. =) That's sad.. But sometimes it can be the right thing to do though it is sad.. =) Thank you so much for coming back and sharing the story, syain1972! Really appreciate it.. It has been so much fun having discussions with you.. =)

Eversince he started developing an 'attitude' problem, my sis, have not been on talking terms with my brother. Frankly, I've no intention whatsoever to go out alone with my sis-in-law...... It's very hurting to what they have done to my Mum.....Long story...... :/

Hmm.. That's interesting.. Thanks for your story, sanamaria2001! I am thinking that you feel the same way as I do sometimes, but you handle things better.. =) Thanks again..

I'm happy that my response helped you to understand this situation better and I hope for future you'll get handle better when that's happened. they are your brother and you sister and it's suppose you love each other. I;m so glad that I could helped you. Take care and be happy because you have brothers..Think what you would do if thei wouldn't be?

Thanks, sanamaria2001! =)

Hee hee.. That's awesome... There's nothing beats a sibling who turns to be a best friend... It's awesome... Wonder how many age difference you girls have...

That's Flyest212! =)

That's great.. Thanks for sharing, HarlemsFlyest212! =)

Yeah.. We are all pretty quiet.. We don't really talk that much to each other.. Everybody is keeping their own stories... We share with our parents more than we share with each other..at least for me... I do know that my brother and sister are closer than I am to them... Sounds like you are trying to be dominant.. =) Well, it is only natural, given you're the first boy and your sibling is a younger sister.. LOL.. =) Thanks anyways..

Do you think that you get along even better due to your parent's remarriage to another family so in a way or another, you and your sister are supporting each other more because both of you are facing the exact same situation? =) Just a thought..

That is cool... Thank you for your response, lingli_78! Do your brothers protect you from guys trying to be close to you? =p~ Just curious.. Hee hee.. =p~~

That's good for you, mdarma! Thanks for the drop! =)

That's great for you, eyewitness... I'm wondering how many siblings you have..

That sounds so sweet.. =)

Well, it is just natural for the oldest brother to be protective to his younger siblings, don't you think? Especially since you're the youngest in the family...and a girl... =) Thanks for your story, summergorgeous! =)

That's really great... Thanks for sharing your story with us, Easytime.. Wish you all the best for you and your family.. Take care! =)

That sounds really great... All the best for your family, katkat3! Take care~! =)

That is true to some people... You're more mature and sympathetic when you grow older.. But I'd say that some people forget to grow up sometimes, and that causes relationships to stay 'broken'.. =p~ Just a thought... Thanks for your reply, ionlycareyou! =)

I see... So, huge age gap definitely plays a role here.. =) Thanks for sharing, cikedo! =)

Wow... That is really sad... I guess that it does work sometimes.. I mean, it is not strange that friends are closer than our family members are to us... However, I would think that it could all be rooted from the special treatments that your elder brother received and gave out to others.. As I read your response to my other discussion, I read that your brother was treated special because he was a boy... And then, the fact that he was the only boy in the family made him even more 'special'... That is why he became arrogant and abusive.. He thought that he was the gold in the family, and people would do anything to make him happy...no matter how much other people have to pay the price for him... When he became abusive to your sisters and you, somehow it got transferred.. For the example of your sisters, they might become hurt, too, when a family member or a sibling comes around because it reminded them of the painful memories that they used to have when they were younger.....which cause them to hurt the family member or sibling (in this case, you).. I am not suggesting that you never speak to your siblings ever again, but I honestly think that sometimes it is best to maintain distance... It is necessary to make you happy first, loujac3... Especially with your traumatic disorder... I would say that you need to take a very very good care of yourself first before you care about your siblings.. =) Don't let them hurt you, and sometimes it is answered by staying away from them.... I wish you all the best in life, loujac3! Thanks for sharing your story with us... Take care..

Were you close to or did you get along with him when you guys were younger before one of you moved accross the country? Just curious.. =)

Oh wow.... I wonder how that happens... Sometimes it is sad to hear that we do not really 'like' the people that we used to grow up with, people that share the same blood as we do... Don't you think? Though sometimes, when they get on our nerves, we often too busy to feel sad because we are too upset with them... =) Just interesting.. Thanks for sharing your and your husband's stories, jennybianca! =)

That's really cool... Thanks for sharing with us, steney..! =) I guess that it is true that age does matter, too.. And being away from the person that your family members for a while does make you appreciate them more than when they are around the whole time.. It happened to me.. =) Thanks again for your response! =)

Aawww... That is so sweet, monkeywriter... I hope she could read your statement.. That is really, really sweet.. =) Thanks for sharing it with us, monkeywriter! =)