Do Arrange Marrages Worth?

Don't marry ur girl or boy friend otherwise u may have an excellent wife or husband but u will surely lose a good friend.

My opinion is arrange marriages really do well..

Yes i do believe... and i have experienced myself as well :) and its going fantastic.. thanks God.. Infact i think there should be no concept of love before marriage. Love after marriage is true love and the genuine way to enjoy the life in a decent way........ (im zia from pakistan)

Yes, I think arranged marriages can work. The 'love' that many people experience that causes them to want to get married is often, really, just a passing fancy. If those marriages work, it is because those people understand the commitment they have made to each other and come to accept it. In VERY rare cases two people can love each other in exactly the same way for the rest of their lives. An arranged marriage should be made, though, on the careful consideration that the two people are compatible. Too often, I suspect, they are just made on financial and 'social' grounds. I think the two people should be allowed to have a say, as well. They should know each other a little before marriage. I have heard some terrible stories of girls who were married by arrangement and were desperately unhappy. They tried to escape many times but were beaten and raped by their husbands and this was condoned by their own families. I think this is a sad fact that is often quite common in societies where arranged marriages are usual. They seem to be societies which also condone the unspeakably barbaric habit of female genital mutilation. Many cultures (not just Islam and Hindu ones) have a form of 'arranged' marriage. It is less formal, perhaps, and consists of introducing young people to 'suitable' partners as well as expressed family disapproval of partners not considered suitable. I think that if two people intend to get married, it is always wise to take advice from people who know them well but are not emotionally involved.

I've heard of a lot of arrange marriages work. Maybe it works because the arranged marriages come from strict cultures (India and a few other countries), and they probably can't divorce. But I would never marry in a arranged marriage. It's like marrying a total stranger and having to get in bed with someone you hardly know!

that is a no no for me!!! u are given a choice dont let anybody control you, else youll suffer

They may very well work because there are 2 people going into a marriage with no love so you can't be hurt so much and if the sole reason is toget married for kids or whatever BUT is that being happy to the full meaning of being happy....love is a beautiful state to be in.

hey man manish or whatever ur name is poo. arrange marriges r more successful than love one bcoz the love marrige consist of the prson whom we r in lov with,i.e it is the prson whois of our choice n r choice is always undr experienced as comp to our parents. n arrange marrige consist of the partner of our parents choice who select him/her accordingly to there exp n 4 ones child bright n happy life. but exceptions r always there so frnd wait n watch whats in u cup of life. Abhishek Chaudhry

yes arrange marriages are surely worth of. My parents are best example for that..

I will love doing Arrange Marriage of my parents choice but before that a lot of flirting and romance so that later i do not hav to regret..

yes arrange marriages are worth but u hve to understand each other and in love marriage u know each other from the beggining

ilike

No...Marriage arent worth only affair are of worth

I dont think arranged marriages really work. I think its much better to find the person you love personally. For some cases they do work but i dont think it will be real love.

arrange marriage have less breakup cos it was arrange..duh.. so whenever there's a problem the arranger AKA parents will do their job to fix the problems. they dont want the arrangement to fell apart,rite? so arrange married is like playing a role that already being arrange by the parents. it will always go on track. while love marriage is based on emotion.

yes

It may be weird because we live in a free society but for other people to pick pur mates isn't a bad idea. Why because we are shallow and excuse the faults in our partner. Ur family could make a clearer choice.