What is love???
By joice86
@joice86 (1078)
Philippines
April 30, 2007 8:39pm CST
If its because of his eyes, his lips or his great body, its not love, it is lust.
If its because or his intelligence or insights about life, its not love, its admiration.
If its because he cries everytime you try to leave him, its not love, its pity
If its because he makes you forget to study and sleep, its not love, its infatuation
LOVE is when you do not know why you seem to be attracted to a person. Love has its own reason and it is unknown.
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12 responses
@g3n3j0rd (721)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Hi Joice86! Please allow me to define love as described in the Bible.
"Love suffers long and is kind;
love does not envy;
love does not parade itself, is not puffed up;
does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil;
does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never fails."
1 Corinthian 13: 4 - 8a (NKJV)
Thanks and God bless!
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
6 May 07
I suppose love can be anything the person who is in love wants it to be. To me, love is still a mystery and I am still learning about it.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
18 May 07
For me love is a mystery. Its like a diamond with many facets to it. one is happiness and one is sadness. One is hope and one is misery. Hope for a future together but misery for all the pain it sometimes causes. When your not in it you want to be and when you are in love you want out.
@stdrst (471)
• Bulgaria
18 May 07
Love is a strange mixtion between all the things you've wrote. It is admiration, lust, pity and so on. When somebody is in love he is ready for everything in order to make the other happy. You think very much about your beloved and it is as if he is only for you and for nobody else. You can be jealous only because of the wind that is in his hair. Love is great feeling and I wish everybody to be able to feel it in thw whole power...
@bindishah (2062)
• India
18 May 07
To me love is a mystery. Its is sometime shappiness and sometimes it brings a lot of sadness. It is hope - hope of a future together. Of building a life together. But it also brings a lot of pain. Id say love is like a diamond with many facets to it.
@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
18 May 07
All of what you are saying is so true. Love is not something that can be easily discribed either it is a feeling. Love does have it own reason and it is unknown. But i do know that when you find it you know cause it is explosive and awesome it makes you feel like you are high and inside you feel awesome. I you too hate it when people would say what do you see in him. They are the people that are in lust or admiration i find they no nothing about what love is. I know i have found it in my new bf he makes me high on life for sure.
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
13 May 07
Love is Accepting:
Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not. This is call unconditional love. When your love IS conditional, the moment they step outside your set of conditions, love evaporates.
Love is Appreciating:
Appreciation is one step beyond acceptance. Its when your focus is on what you like about another. We look at them and feel this sweeping appreciation for who they are, their joy, their insights, their humor, their companionship, etc. When someone says they are "in love" with another, they mean their appreciation is so enormous for this person that it consumes their every thought.
Love is Wanting Another to Feel Good:
We want those we love to be happy, safe, healthy, and fulfilled. We want them to feel good in all ways, physically, mentally and emotionally.
@nidhi_24ne (17)
•
7 May 07
Love is something beyond that cant be express by words,it only can be felt.
when u love someone then u become happy when ur love is happy,
u bocome sad when ur love is sad,
u forget ur all tension in the company of ur love.
u always care for him, worried 4 him,enjoy with him.
u dont need anyone else beside him.
Love is Love only...................
so Love Love Love.............................
@blacksteel (105)
• China
18 May 07
Love is the most difficult lesson for me in the world,i don't quite get what does it means definitely.But for me, it is about what you feel when you fall in love with someone.sometimes you can't describe it in words.Even there is no reason.
@bettypeng82114 (49)
• China
18 May 07
Love is an abstract word.Everyone has its own explanation for it. In fact, love for me is so holy, I only express to my parents and brother. It is hard for me to express love to other people.
In my opinion, love is eternal and faithful.But nowadays, few couples who love each other form one family in the end.
Maybe love is just one feeling, to some extends,love will turn to the relationship among relatives in the end. The pain in lover's is mine. :) Choose the one I love,and love the one I choose.