ladies, if you got pregnant.. and weren`t ready to be a mommy ...

Well am not a female, but since the discussion was sent to my mail box, then it means I have to respond (isn't it? hehe:). I will advise any lady in the world who got pregnant mistakely by someone out there to hold the pregnancy, eventhough I know it's not easy, but she should try and give birth to the baby, cos aborting the baby will be a serious crime to God, nature and to humanity. Thanks

I think i will keep it.actually i will not get pregnant as long as i wish.Because to be or not to be a mother should be your own decision.Butthen if it occurs then i will keep it as i don't think aborting a child is good.

Been there, done that. I got pregnant before I graduated from college and I wasn't ready yet, but I know the baby was given for me to keep so I decided to raise him. Eventually my boyfriend and I decided to get married 5 months after our child was born. Abortion, no way! I wouldn't terminate a person's life because that is very selfish Adoption, no way! I feel sad thinking about the kids waiting in the orphanage because their mothers are not responsible enough to take care of them.

oh my goshh...ofcourse i would definitely keep the baby. who cares if the man who got me pregnant doesnt want it. ..he can go out of my sight and feel free to do whatever he wants. in the first place, why would you make love if you dont know the consequences behind it. you should be prefer that somehow you can be pregnant. so you should be responsible for it...and hey...i love baby so i would definitely keep my baby. he/she will makes me happy and completes me....takecare. Godbless

keep it. i love my kids already, even if theyre not conceived yet. How could i claim to love them and then turn around and abort it? I could also never give my baby up to random people to rasie. If he doesnt love his child fine, but i do. So he can take off if he wants, although you better believe he better pay some child support for the baby he helped make.

id keep the baby and thank the guy for his semen!!!

I don't want children, I never want children. And I never ever want to carry one. I would definately get an abortion. Accidents happen and they need to be dealt with. My health and well-being comes way before that of a non-sentient fetus.

i still keep the baby. God gave it to me and there are many woman out there that has difficulty of having a baby so i will keep it. if the guy doesn't want the baby, i will still force him to take responsibility, the baby will grow and someday my baby will ask where is his/her father, how will i answer. it is really difficult. we both have the responsibility over so we will both take the risk of facing it and not me alone. and i don't want it to happen to me, please.i hope i can meet someone who will not make me pregnant and will leave me, i want someone who will have a future with me.

Abort it. I will never be ready to be a mother for anything other than my four-legged furkids. If I don't want the baby and would be unwilling to give up my vices and lifestyle to bring a baby to full term to deliver it, then it's really my only option. Of course, I take precautions to prevent it, too, but accidents happen anyway. I certainly wouldn't keep the baby if the guy that fathered it wasn't interested.. I don't want to be another statistic.

Of course I will undoubtedly continue the pregnancy even if the father doesn't want me to. I will do everything I can to protect my baby.... Actually, I'm 3 weeks delayed now. Pray for me guys! =)