Does True Love Last Forever?
By Rozie37
@Rozie37 (15499)
Turkmenistan
May 4, 2007 2:17am CST
I have found that most people don't fall out of love, not when it is real. They may hurt so bad that it may be hard for them to admit to that love, once the relationship ends, but true love never dies.
Think about it, most of the time when people get divorced, separate, or break up, it is because the other person has hurt them bad, but not because the love has ended. I believe that true love last forever, as it was meant to.
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@teapotmommommerced (10359)
• United States
5 May 07
Rozie, I disagree with you. I once that of that but not anymore. I asked my cousin who was truly in love with her husband who was not faithful to her if now that she was divorced if she had any feelings for her husband, because I thought she would always in some way love him. She said "No" she felt nothing for him.
They where together for years and had two children together. I thought they were the perfect stay together forever couple. I believe some people can let go of their true love and other people still pine for what was.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
5 May 07
I am not going to disagree with that, because I can not speak for how she feels. But let me tell you my story. I met this guy when I was 15 and he was twenty-five. We started dating and of course, it was child molestation, but I really believed that he loved me and I still speak to him to this day.
I do not any any way pine for him. We were together from 1985 to 1997, nine years of that we lived together. He also hit me several times, he has since apologized twice, although I had already forgiven him.
Now he is gravely ill. He has had three heart attacks in the pass six months and has a big whole in his foot from Diabetes and I can't even remember all of the other things that are wrong with him.
Normally I will call him every now and then to see how he is doing, but this time, I have been keeping up with him, as I am afraid he make pass away and I will not know. I still have loving and caring feelings for him.
Even though, I am still struggling with the things from the past, he is a human being that was once the center of my world, I can't run away from that and I have no hang ups about admitting that I still care for him deeply.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
4 May 07
I believe true love can last forever. First, we must know what is true love. A friend of mine loves a girl, and he said she was his true love, but he said goodbye to her because he thought the girl demanded too much. He had to smoke outside and washed hands before eating something. He couldn't bear of her demands. I dont think this is true love. What is true love? Basically, you must accept his or her faults.
My bf has a lot of faults and so does I. We belive we can live together till we are both old.
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@rahuldmhatre (736)
• India
4 May 07
yes true love lasts forever............even if u end the relationship due to some minor reason, if u loved the other person truely then u can never stop loving him or u can never forget him...although u may get over him and be with someone else but true love never ends.......
@helpmehelpyou (534)
• Canada
5 May 07
why do you bring back those memories. don't you realise how much it hurts to be reminded of a lost love. i have loved many, and felt a loss with each one . am i to be a loving person without an understanding companion for the rest of my time here? yes i believe in love neverending. once you give your love, how would you ever take it back. you cant take back what you freely give
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
5 May 07
yes and i agree with you!!if the love that you have for that person is true then it surely would go a long way...so i'm really happy to see people especially those old couples that really lived up to their vows of being together and forever!! i know that troubles and challenges in love and relationships are inevitable,but still there are those who are strong enough to fight for their relationship and that's what i call true love!
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
5 May 07
I honestly beleive that true love last forever and I also beleive that both people must work at making the other fall in love with them over and over again. Me and my husband can talk about anything together. I think true love does last forever. That is why it is called true love. I also think that a lot of people get married because of lust and obsession they are so in love with someone and the other person may love them but not be obsessed with the other.
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
5 May 07
i agree with you..true love does last forever... even if you leave someone.. doesn't mean the love ended.. it's just people hurting other person.. right? ..i've been studying true love for sometime.. and i came to a conclusion that true love doesn't not need both party to contribute.. as long as you develop your love.. and you can feel it.. therefore.. you will be able to obtain true love.. love is not a give and take platform... someone just have to sacrifice.. and you can't be greedy in it...and i'm one of the people that is waiting for my love to be return.. but it's okay if it didn't =)
@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
4 May 07
true love last forever.... if two people both feel the same true love then it will lst no matter obstacle nd trials will come to them it will last...
even in times of problems they will do everything to save their relationship... thats true love can do...
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@cire_6782 (3)
• Philippines
5 May 07
True love is timeless. It turns your life around. you are happier. But true love is rare. a mistake can ruin your life.
