Best Advice

"Being In Love", is something we put enormous store by when we are young, and we invest tremendous time and energy preparing for it. We also suffer great agony when it doesn't work out. Yet, despite all the effort put into trying to understand human behaviour, we actually know very little about Love. The feelings of Hurt, rejection,sadness,hopelessness,anger,longing,are often frightening powerful,be it a brief romance or a marriage for a years.

Personally I agree with you in that you should take with you lessons learned from old relationships. What you shouldn't do is take the bad experiences and have them as baggage so the new person doesn't feel the wrath!

What ever happen Who always gives Who always shares Who always cares Who always loves one's own self So that loves all being THAT IS LOVE

The best advice that I heard about love is "Love as if you've never been hurt before". Some of us get scared of giving ourselves another chance to fall in love again after a heartbreak but it doesn't mean that if somebody did us wrong before that everybody will do the same. It's really good to follow that advice so that nothing will hold us back from being happy.

Yes you are right. Past is past, it has passed away. If you keep on bragging about it, you are letting the person know how bad he is. You only remind him the mistakes and he might not forget about that too. If you are in a relationship and you want it to last long, like forever, you have to sacrifice. You are happy because he is happy. Even if you are hurt. But it has to ba both who has to sacrifice, because it is a give and take relationship and not only a one way thing. If he or she has a lot of flaws or mistakes, learn to love it, you will be dealing it everyday. Accept the person as he is, like everything about him.

I agree that you can't hold onto the past and it will hold you back. Some people get so hurt from a relationship/situation that they don't know how to let go so it can be a tricky thing!! I believe it all comes down to fear, and if people can own up to their fear so they can achieve happiness!! Tough thing to teach someone as well, i think that some things are meant to be learned by everyone themselves.

learn to let go of the feelings that was once hurt you, move on the higher level, learn that love is not just a piece of cake that is sweet but its a mixture of every taste and every feelings. love and pain, well they are twins eh, you can't know that you love unless you felt the pain. the more we hurt the more we love, ironic isnt it?