Are you comfortable speaking in public?
By heatspine
@heatspine (1141)
Philippines
May 5, 2007 2:05am CST
There are people who always want to be in the spotlight. There are others who prefer to stay at the background. Not all are given the talent to speak in public (though it can be learned by anyone). But then again, the courage of speaking in front of people is a totally different thing. So, are you the type of person who speaks comfortably in public?
12 people like this
36 responses
@maumbi (2569)
• Indonesia
5 May 07
yes i do, and i learn this since i am 12 years old on the school,i remember my teacher always ask me to help him to speak and teach another student;) amazing till now well is better what i got on school.
people have to learn first this is very difficult in first time but will be fine after practice i think, i am 33 years old now and always speak on public in my small company, not a lot people there but very difficult to if we not have experience. so practice on the mirror the easy way.
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
5 May 07
that's nice to hear maumbi. i agree that it takes years before one master it fully well. the key is to start doing it don't you think?
2 people like this
@timou87 (1638)
• Singapore
5 May 07
Ever since I was young I have always been more of an introvert, and was really shy in front of people who I dont know very well. I had some difficulty making sppeches in front of my class, much less to a school assembly, and I think it would be near impossible to do so in public!
3 people like this
@00fear (3216)
• United States
5 May 07
no i dont really feel comfortable speaking in public because im too shy. but i do have to admit that i have to learn to take away that habit because there are things i wont know how to do things and not know where things are in places im new. if i dont have like people i know around me, who might help me, i then may have to ask the people in public. so yea, i would try and take that habit of being shy. and yea, speaking as in talking to others and like talk in front of people, that i also get way too shy.
3 people like this
@akinad (446)
• Philippines
5 May 07
no!!in public??i'd rather not..i easily get nervous and end up buckling with my words..but if it's really needed then i would..like in school programs..i wouldn't want to be kicked out or marked incomplete by my professors if i did not do that..i could speak in public by own language (tagalog)..but in english??i don't think so..i'm not that fluent in speaking terms but in writing,i'll do good..but i wish i could..lol
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
9 May 07
I guess there's only one way to address that akinad ... practice ... Good speakers also have butterfly in their chest ... they just overcome it and as a result hide that from the public.
@sarapooht (271)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Hello Heatspine!
I'm not a person who likes to speak in public. Since I was young I am really shy to speak in front of the crowd. Everytime I speak in front of many people, I don't look at them, I often look on the floor.
@heatspine (1141)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Hi sarapooht. i guess it will take some practice for us to master public speaking. and maybe the start of it is to gain even a little bit of confidence when we do it. don't you agree?
@zhling81 (1)
• China
6 May 07
Speaking in public is a very important capability for almost anyone nowadays, because we will sometimes need to speak in public, for example, in a speech contest, or in our family's wedding ceremony, etc. Besides, this kind of capability can help us a lot in our work. But i think, we don't born with it, we can improve through practice, as long as we encourage ourselves to do that.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
6 May 07
No not so..but i have experienced one that is when im still active in some church organization which will make us give some lectures on couples before marrying..at first im not comfortable but later on i was used to it..but i dont know what im going to feel if im going to do it again at present its been years since i or we was not able to give some lectures on the church.
1 person likes this
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
6 May 07
I am not gifted with speaking in public nor do I have the courage to do it! I have had to do it in the past and always I feel tongue tied or sick to my stomach or all at once! If I were to speak, it would be in front of a few choice people, not a gallery of people. My husband however, can speak to a large auditorium of soldiers and not phase him one bit. He is ver confident in that area! I just could'nt do that!
1 person likes this
@angelblush (75)
• Philippines
6 May 07
At first... the nervousness is there.. but I muster up the courage and go speak anyway. Im not afraid.. if it's a topic I know and passionate about... :)
@Easytime (126)
• Nigeria
5 May 07
I am very comfortable speaking in public. I love it with passion. I am a talented and gifted teacher or speaker; I have been teaching since my secondary school and even after I left secondary school into the college. I find it very interesting to teach and speak especially when I speak well - when I make epoch making speeches, am always very happy. So, I love it.
1 person likes this
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
6 May 07
When I was in High School I often speak in the front of my classmates. It was called "extemporaneous speaking". I was studying English at that time, it made me easy, gave me courage. It can be learned by anyone as you said but still it is a talent.
1 person likes this
@KrisNY (7590)
• United States
23 May 07
I am if I know what I'm talking about- If I have facts and know that what I am talking about is correct and true- I have no problem speaking in public. I'm an outspoken person. If someone asks me to speak in public and I know it isn't correct- then I have a big problem with this- People can see right through me- so I'm not one for this. You are right- public speaking can be learned- once you get over the fear of being in front of people with all eyes on you- there is nothing to it- I think it is important that colleges and schools teach public speaking- I believe it gives kids better self-esteem!
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
29 Jul 07
For some reason, I can. I always thought I was a fraidy cat but I found that if someone wants me to speak in front of a group, I have no trouble. I am not afraid of crowds,and when I cannot think of anything to say, I just wing it.
@tsgirl01 (900)
• United States
23 May 07
Hi heatspine, I am very shy when it comes to public speaking. If I am asked to present something, it makes me so nervous. If I am passionate about the discussion and am received warmly, I slowly relax. I have to present some workshops on my job and most of the people make me feel ok, but I am still apprehensive up until the moment I have to speak. Are you comfortable speaking in public? Thanks for the good discussion...take care...
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
29 Jul 07
I am jealous of people who can speak in public without a hitch. I am not one of those people. I am more of a behind the scenes person and that is just the way I like it. I love to be the center of attention at a small gathering and that is where I feel most comfortable. I can speak in public if I am among a small group of people but that is about it.
@spoiledsister (73)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
I'm not really comfortable speaking in public...I easily get get tense and forget what I am suppose to say..