too much love can kill you?
By joycer
@joycer (498)
Sri Lanka
May 5, 2007 5:11am CST
Do you believe that too much love can kill you? Does jealousy, obsession rooted from too much love? Is it that bad for the relatioship?
I have experienced giving too much love. I have experienced over jealousy. It has made me unbecoming of me. I'm glad that i have overcome it. What is your opinion with this?
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5 responses
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
5 May 07
know that love is an all encompassing thing. there is nothing to it outside of being good, patient, caring, loving, giving, understanding, selfless, others more to follow - everything that's good and we desire to have in a relationship, all the positive qualities that we can think of.
there is no such thing as too much love, for love is perfect in itself. jealousy and obsession is not rooted from love. it comes forth from selfishness and insecurity. a selfish person wants the object of his affection and attention for himself alone. an obsessed person thinks at all times of the object of his attention and even thinks that if he finds that there is something wrong that he finds in watever that she does, he can do to such lengths as even kill or harm anyone who crosses his path. this is a situation/condition that no one, in his right mind, desires.
@repzkoopz (1895)
• Philippines
5 May 07
very well said trinidadvelasco.. i can't agree more!
selfishness can easily corrupt a person's judgements.. once selfishness takes over, it would be very hard for anyone to regain control over it.
@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
5 May 07
i think in a way it really does kill..i mean it'll end up with that because abusing anything has a really bad effect to the involved people
@happyeveryday (222)
• China
7 Jun 07
perhaps right, more love, more hate. when you paid love and don't get equal...... pool man we are, pool love we are.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
7 Jun 07
To love someone that much is not a good thing to do. If you become overprotected, it will destroy your relationship at the end. I agree with you when you say that jealousy, obsession and also insecurity are rooted from too much love that you have for your loved one. It is better for us to love ourselves more rather than giving all to the person that we loved so much. At least, when you fall, you can still stand up and move on...