do we have to make a love in a relationships?

In my personal opinion, I think that making out is equivalent to bonding between a couple. It lets you feel confident about yourself and lets your partner comfortable about themselves as well. It's but another discovery about each other. But the caveat is that I'm referring to married couples. Your dilemna is not new. I would advise that you have a good talk with your bf. Knowing whether he is the one for you is usually tough and is akin to striking lottery. But as an alternative, since guys are usually filled with testosterones, you may want to consider 'petting' instead of making out.

It is a sad statement but unless you both don't want it then eventually you will have to do it. If you don't do it then the perosn who wants to do it will eventually leave. I do think too much importance is placed on s3x in a relationship but that is the way it is. I know I would be perfectly happy if my husband stopped wanting it, but that just isn't going to happen. They say that it is actually important for a serious relationship because it really is something special shared by the two people. I think though, that if you are worried that he will leave you if you have s3x with him, then you may need to take a deeper look into your relationship. That fear may be a clue to something deeper that is not working in the relationship. Just don't do anything that you really don't want to do.

That i svery sad that he let you for not wanting to make love. Under no circumstances should you ever feel pressured in to this. It is the most intimate you will ever be with someone. Aperson who does not respect and understand this never loved you truely in the first place.

Not necessarily. If he left you because you always refuse, that means he doesn't love you truly. Don't worry about your X leaving you, there are a lot of other guys out there who were really serious in finding a realationship that was built because of love. And I'm one of them.

When you do it, it should be someone you love and vice versa. Dont do something that you are not sure of. You have to really get to know the person before you decide to do it. Besides, it is also a form of prevention from any unwanted STD.

Making love is just one way of expressing emotions, if you feel doing it with him do it, but if you have a feeling of guilt to do it, pls dont... because doubt in making love with your partner would not give you good response and it might be the reason also of leaving you than loving you.... So check your emotion first if its ready to accept his love and the consequence if ever you will get pregnant.

Love is always there in a relationship. For me, making love with the person you love is worth-it no mater what future may brings, as long as you love him/her, their is nothing to lost because you did it for love. It is a language that could tell more than words and actions. Just don't give it to the person whom you are not sure that you love because for sure, it would not be "making love" anymore, it would be a "sinful lust".

if you think that when you accept his love then he gonna to leave you then your thinking is wrong as the making of love in the relationship is so good you know that every thing in this world is depend upon love and if there is a relation ship between you and you bf then it is only due to love if there is no love then why he make you your friend if he propose you then he only wanna to increase the love between you and him he only wanna to increase the relationship if you dont accept his love then he may leave you so be confident and accept his love and do full love masti ..... i know that he cant leave you if he love you kindly then he cant do wrong to you ... so go on...

It's depend on you. If you make love with him just because want to make him happy or prevent to make him angry, you better not to do that. Make love is just one of expression. You said that you afraid that he wanna leave you after make love, it can be right and false. You must believe in him first, then find how much he love you and you love him......then you decide, do that or not

in my opinion, and i don't mean to badmouth your guy, is that when a guy can't wait, he's usually up to something. i suggest that you think very well, specially if it's your first time. another thing, when he left you, he practically shouted at you that all he was ever after was to make out with you. you don't have to make love. you should both want to make love. besides, take it from me, it feels better getting intimate without getting naked. hope i helped.