Will you marry because you got a girl pregnant?

You're absolutely right there... but I think marriage and making it work is the best and the right way to go. As the father of the child you're responsible to take care of the mother and the child she is caring. Marry her if not for love, then out of being a good Christian.

I got pregnant before marriage. My boyfriend wanted to marry me immediately since he wants to have a family but I'm not ready yet because I want to think about the baby first. He respected my decision ang we decided to talk about marriage after our child was born. Forcing a girl to go on with the marriage will onyl prolong her suffering, ther is nothing wrong being a single parent but entering a marriage against your will is VERY WRONG.

i totally agree with you. my daughter is 17 years old and 5 months pregnant. her babys dad is a deadbeat and i would never force her to get married to someone whom she didnt love. plus even though she is 17 and pregnant, shes still to young to be married. she always has me and her dad behind her. this baby will be so loved.

Definitely no, I will not commit another mistakes, should have learned from it. Experiences earned is for life time conscience. You can't escape to those consequences commited.

I am strongly against abortion but getting married to someone you dont love because the girl is pregnant is what i wont subscribe to. Given that unexpected pregnancies bring shame and disgrace to the girl and her family, it is still not right to force those involved to get married knowing that they may not love themselves enough to go thru the hassles of marriage. I have friends that are regretting getting married today because they got married due to a pregancy rather than love, there are always cases of infidelity and unfaithfulness in such marriages. I seriously think parents should allow their kids to choose who ever they want to get married to without all these talk about pregnancy, class or race etc.

I think they have to marry each other maybe they dont love each other right now but eventually they will learn to love each other because they have kids. They will not do a baby if they dont have feelings for each other even if it is just an intimacy. Its up to them when they really want to make their marriage work and open their hearts to learn to love each other.

I agree with you too. I too had my kids at an early age and me and their father are not yet married upto now. You see my reason for not yet being married is that I would like to make sure to myself that i really love their father. Yes we have kids but for me I have to make a very tough decision if i will marry their father

We can do many things sentimental.But presently we have to see the problem in a different dimension, solve it amicably with out more embrassment for both parties