Would you accept back your first love?

well personally i wont waste my time dealing with what i feel with my first love.in the first place if im ok now and happy with my present boyfriend why should i dump him,, if we're really good together why am i happy with someone else now, i should think of all the time that we shared together and is it worth it if a get back to him,,this are some of the things i should consider..

I will never give her another chance for the sake of my present wife whom I love so much. She is supposed to know that I am having a happy life and not to get involved in my life. But if she really wants to, then it is only ok to be my secret mistress and no marriage is allowed. lol. (in fact I have never had this thought since my first love left me.)

Nope, I never will. As far as I am concerned, the relationship is long over. I prefer to put it behind me. We can never go back to those days as things are no longer the same. I do not have any feelings for him anymore and nothing he does can ever re-kindle these feelings. Also, I prefer to have a permanent clean break from my ex and concentrate on my current relationship.

No, I wouldn't accept him back. We've already gone our separate ways.I wouldn't give him a second chance. Ive already moved on. Im already happy with my life right now.

If that's the case,i will not accept him anymore. What's the use? We have already choosen our lives to live with. Eventhough the same old feelings for him is still there i will still be firm on my decission. I have already choosen the man to marry and i'm happy and blest with him. So i guess ours is long over due. There's no use on going stray it will only add to my problems. So as much as possible I will detached myself from any possibilities to cheat my better half.

One of my dear friends is having the same probelm.She told me her first love ipmressed her a lot,while it also hurt her seriously.In front of the problem,she choose the present love as a reason of that she wouldn't bring the current boyfriend into the similarly depression she had been in.Then I think if I was her I would have the same choice with her.

I will be firm on my decision. The past is the past, and the present is the present. I would not cheat my current relationship just for the sake of my first love. If I were supposed to be happy living with my first love, our relationship should be in good shape long ago and didn't end in a break. Now that I have found a new love, and he is loving me and giving me happiness, why should I give a second chance to the person who broke my heart and broke our relationship in the past? Even though he still has a place in my heart I would just ignore it. I know it will pass. I will cling strongly to my current relationship. Nobody can jeopardize it, even if it is my first love. He can go away and find someone else. Lol. That's my point of view in this matter.

you would have to look at all the reasons that you did not make it in the first place. what has changed? what reasons will make things beter now? Would it be fair to hurt the person you are with now if they havent done anything wrong? you have to use rightous judgement to make the decision and try not to hurt anyone.....its one to do alot of thinking about.

Honestly, it will depend on the present situation I am in. I'm currently in a marriage and has been married for more than four years now. I value my family very much; more so my daughter and her future. I feel that if ever my first love or former boyfriend shows up and wants reconciliation and a second chance, I would not accept his offer no matter how much I loved him then. I don't want to ruin my family. But if I'm still single & unattached; maybe I would give it a thought. I don't want to hurt anybody in the process especially someone who loves me and respects me so much. I'm afraid of karma.

No, it is not possible. When I already have started a new relationship with another. I can't accept others any more. I will feel guilty to it.

I will not, I care about the people in front of me. Right, I lost things, even back is not necessarily belong to him about love that has lost Ran, it is still not as good as the memories buried souls.

As much as we would like to, you can never go home again. Over time our mind takes our memories and turns them so that we have either sweet memories, or sours them so we avoid getting hurt again. I would love to be able to see and talk with my first love as we were best friends growing up and I miss my friend. But there could never be another relationship there.

No, i will not. I have no feelings anymore to my ex. But if ever i have.. i guess its still a big NO. if i am happy with my current relationship and we love each other i should choose him than to my ex. :)

I guess not.:) The feelings from before is soooo different. I have constant communication with him (probably because I stalked him too much when I was in high school! LOL) and I'm pretty sure there is nothing left for a relationship to sustain. He is a good friend and I think we were meant to be friends that's why it never did work out.:)

In no way i mean in no way what so ever i would leave my present sweet heart for a past one even if its my first love because as far as i am concerned i wud have left my first love because of the pain she had given me so when she comes back there can be no surety that she is gonna love me truly and that too when i am committed to someone ele ,in no way i can cheat my sweet heart for someone who broke my heart

I wouldn't. We've both moved on, changed, and grown apart.

Hi there Joshua, Well, i am so inlove with my current girlfriend and so there's no way for me to go back to my 1st love. And actually me and my 1st love are ok, we're still friends and seeing each other and hanging out together with her boyfriend and my girlfriend. I don't know, but we tend to feel awkward somehow but it never happens, it's so cute and nice. But then, my girlfriend and her botfriend feels awkward i think, im not just sure about it but maybe. And as the matter of fact, my 1st love and her boyfriend are engaged and they are going to get married sooner and we are INVITED! Can you beat that? isn't cute? Have a nice day ahead buddy! Kiko

I think it all depends on how you much you think you love what you have and what you had.

hi, joshua_w.. my first love is start at march 2004 and end at jun 2004.. i think i have to think that she really want back with me.. if she just want me replace her bf or what.i think i wont back with her.. and need to me now got girlfriend..