love not at first sight.

hi,nice to meet you !ahout this question l have a different idea with yours. beause of first sight,we have the will to meet new freinds,then have a nice and happy life ,thought my exeperence ,even first sight is not essential but necessary.do you agree that?

i really don't believe in love in first sight. personally, i feel it takes a lot more than just a glance to fall in love with someone.

I don't believe in love at first sight,either.But it does happened on my two schoolmates,who fall in love with each other at their first sights and till now they are in love. So,it is a bit amazing~

I dont believe in love at first sight, i think that is more than physical attraction than love, i need to be with someone for some time to fall in love with her, because i fall in love with her personality too, not only her physical appearance.

you nailed it right at the head. for me the best way to fall in love with a person is to start out as friends, that way you really see the person for who he/she is, no facade and pretensions. =)

Hello tangerine121, I do believe that some people can recognize something familiar in the face of a new person they meet them for the first time. Maybe it's just a mutual attraction, being a physical thing as you wrote, or maybe it's even something more than that - something etereal or spiritual. However, physical attraction can also develop over time and it can happen that two people, who have been friends for ages, do not notice the bond growing between them. Only when the other person is not there do they suddenly realise that some part of them is missing. That is love! Have a nice weekend. Umart

Hmmm...I totally agree with you,tangerine! I have been told" NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER" since I was a child . Similarly, we also can't just a man by its good appearance,right? ^_^