Going to Semi Active due to Family Death

United States
May 15, 2007 7:04am CST
Last night, just a month after burying my aunt, I lost my father as well. Because I have to actively help in arranging his funeral, depending, I probably will not be active here on MyLot until after this is over. Right now, I am having some resistance as to when the funeral is going to be already, and I know that is the very least of my problems.If you can, please say a prayer for us. You can put in your two cents worth here if you will and thank you in advance for any words or comfort you put forth.
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15 responses
MarkyB21
@MarkyB21 (1545)
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15 May 07
I am sorry for your loss. I am still recovering from the loss of my Mum so I understand how difficult the loss of a parent is. Time does make the pain fade away gradually and it becomes easier to just remember the good times you had.
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Savvynlady
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
15 May 07
MarkyB, Thanks so much for your words knowing your still in the grieving process yourself. they are much appreciated.
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MarkyB21
@MarkyB21 (1545)
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15 May 07
Thank you. I sincerely hope you have no more loss to deal with in the near future, you have been through a lot already.
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disvachic
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
15 May 07
Hi savvynlady,I am so sorry to hear of your lost.You and your family will be in my prayers.He is going home to a better place.Be strong and I hope everything wil be alright for you and your family.I will definitely pray you all.Take care.
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Savvynlady
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
15 May 07
Thanks for the words of comfort and do keep us in prayer.
Stiletto
@Stiletto (4579)
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15 May 07
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Bereavement is hard enough to cope with but it's even worse when there's disagreements about arrangements, etc. You'll get there in the end though. Stay strong and I look forward to seeing you back here again.
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Heather Echola
@GardenGerty (160978)
• United States
16 May 07
You do not know me, but I came upon your discussion and wanted to send you well wishes anyway. Those sorrows seem to be stacking up. I do not expect a response here, but I am saying a prayer for you now.
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seagoddess28
@seagoddess28 (873)
• Canada
14 Jun 07
I pray that you and your family will be showered with the grace of strength in your time of grief. I lost my father in 2001 and the pain never really goes away. I hope that you will be able to call on the happy memories to tide you over, and that laughter will bring you solace when you do remember. Be strong, friend... :-} {{{{*}}}}
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dlkuku
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
16 May 07
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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tater03
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
15 May 07
I am so sorry that you are having to go through this. I will be praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. Please take care. We are thinking of you.
deebomb
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
21 May 07
I just came up on your discussion and want to let you know that you have my heat felt sympathy .It is always difficult to lose a loved and more so when you lose 2 of them so close together. May God keep you close to him and help you and your family through this difficult time.
funfreak2k2
@funfreak2k2 (1734)
• India
15 May 07
father is a huge suppport. to lose him, is like losing all the morale, but its the time to show the morale your father has taught you. if you are broken, its insulting him. pls be courageous and uphold what he has taught you.
Savvynlady
@Savvynlady (3684)
• United States
15 May 07
Thank you Funfreak; He was a great support to me and my siblings.
maddysmommy
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
15 May 07
So sorry to hear of your loss Savvynlady :( I will say a prayer for you and your family - Please take care and hope that everything turns out ok for you and not to worry about the postcards! Sorry for that, I hadn't realised.
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aliasad
@aliasad (1567)
• Pakistan
15 May 07
Very sad to learn about your aunt and then the sad demise of your father. Well, the world is transitory and everyone who comes to this world will have to leave it. I know parents are the entities whose importance and value is beyond the words here. Don't loose heart and this is really a very tough time and sad moments. May Almighty give you the courage to bear the irreparable loss. Amen!
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speedy1279
@speedy1279 (2665)
• United States
15 May 07
My sincere condolences on you loss. I know there are no easy words to say to make things better. But I pray that God will be with you in this time of need and give you the strength to make it through. You will be kept in my prayers. God Bless!!!!
rupahali
@rupahali (23)
• Germany
15 May 07
I am also sorry to hear your news. No body runs for ever, once upon a time we will also die, so do not be grieved much and take the strength in your mind to make the situation normal.
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banban
@banban (601)
• China
15 May 07
I'm so sorry to hear that. I know there is no word to make things better, but do take care.and I hope this unhappyness will go as soon as possible.
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LightninStrike
@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
15 May 07
I am really sorry to hear about your recent losses, savvy, i really give you my deepest sympathies. Hope that things go better for you as soon as possible.