Have you cheated?

I'll be the first to admit that I have cheated on my husband. He does know it now that it is over. We are working threw it and actually have a much stronger relationship now. So this is what happened. There was a lot going on at home. My husband works 6 days a week and would come home and complain about everything from what was for dinner to the fact I didn't clean out the microwave. He was carring his stress from work into the marriage. One day I got a phone call from an ex (like 20 yrs ago ex). I had been running into him lately just to say hi. He is also married. He said that he has never stopped loving me (ok, we actually went on one date). We spoke for a bit and I asked him if he wasn't happy wiht his wife. He said, as long as you are happy that's all that matters. Well, after the call, I was kinda freaked out, but also flattered! I ran into him again about 2 months later and told him that we had to talk about what he said. We met in a local bar and talked. He was very charming! I was very needy. We did nothing but did decide to meet again once a month just to catch up. This was the worst idea we could have had. After a few months, thing started to develop and bam....I am not proud of this time in my life or my actions. Thankfully my husband has forgiven me and we are doing good now. Never again will I let myself get into a situation like that.

Why does everyone like to ask this question? I have no plans of cheating, as any means of doing so is not only offending to your partner, but to one's principles as well.

I have had plenty of opportunities to be unfaithful in 37 years of marriage but can say truthfully, with my hand on my heart, that I never been unfaithful to my wife.

I have not cheated. Even if someone cheated on me then I still would not cheat because I think you should not be in a relationship if you are a cheater.....