Is it possible? 20 years girl can marrie 35 yrs guy?

India
May 18, 2007 5:19am CST
Pls give your opinion . But response should be with reason .
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8 responses
@fredgame (1260)
• China
15 Aug 07
Indeed it is possible for that to happen if the lady loves the man and knows that he can be responsible and caring. for loves is the first thing that binds and responsiblity could make this come true. usually we think of the age difference in the sense that bring up children could be very difficult is the man maybe out of job when the children still need some financial support but in some cases the man maybe ready for all especially if he has his own business. i think the base block is love and readiness to bear responsibilies. this is my opinion.
@mae1216 (658)
• Philippines
15 Aug 07
I am also thinking the same way cause I am liking a guy who is 10 years older than me. So far, we are having a good understanding since he is matured enough and I want a guy who will look after me and I think he has this quality. But the problem now is we are both committed. So no plans yet. But in your question, I believe it is possible as long as you guys understand each other I don't see problems with that.
@nancygibson (3736)
• France
18 May 07
Of course it is possible, you get stories of girls in their twenties marrying men in their nineties. What is a bigger issue is whether its right for that particular couple. At the moment the age gap is not an issue, but in 50 years time she will be 70 and he will be 95, will she want to be nursemaid to a very elderly man whilst she isnt really elderly yet herself?
• Australia
23 Jun 07
Hey! Very much possible. I think the girl is old enough to marry. Besides, it's the guy who is a lot older. If it was the girl who's older then that could be a different story, it does happen, but rare though. In this situation since the guy is a lot older by 15 years old. I think this is common. 15 years old age gap I think is tolerable.
@avelnrm (239)
• Philippines
18 May 07
there are many instances where a girl is married to a guy who is a lot older than her. that has been possible for a long time. my grandmother,who was then 20 years old, for example, was married to my grandfather, who was then 54 years old. but if the girl is 35 years old, while the guy is 20 years old, i think it is rare, but it still happens, sometimes..
@ckj6981 (194)
• Singapore
20 Jul 07
Why not? I married when I was 24 years old and my husband was 36 years old. Age is not a question in married life.
@nancygibson (3736)
• France
18 May 07
Of course it is possible, you get stories of girls in their twenties marrying men in their nineties. What is a bigger issue is whether its right for that particular couple. At the moment the age gab is not an idssue, but in 50 years time she will be 70 and he will be 95, will she want to be nursemaid to a very elderly man whilst she isnt really elderly yet herself?
@Inky261 (2520)
• Germany
18 May 07
Yes, sure it is possible. They are both grown people. It might even work out. Why not? It is quite ok.