What is the biggest mistake you've made in your marriage?

well I am divorced, I have a life partner now after 23 years of being alone. The biggest mistake I had made in my marriage was to listen to family and so called friend. I do not do that in this relationship now and it is much better.

Our biggest mistakes are that we have too much indebted ness and we have to work too much, and often our work schedules are not the same, so we also do not have much recreation time together. Somedays it does not even feel like we get a hug from each other, and we are often very exhausted. Worry about money eats away at you and your relationships. If you have a choice, do not go into debt, except for a house.

Well, I do not think I have made some mistakes that I can think of. Maybe giving too much of myself without asking anything in return would be one of the mistakes that I have made.

Hello sutan74, I admit that the biggest mistake I have made in my marriage was and is being forgiving. I forgave him for every little and big thing he has done to me including his adultery. I dont why I always give him second chance and it backfires me. Being forgiving is good but too much of it proof to be ineffective in a relationship.

I have made several mistakes. 1 letting him get his own way all the time (i am talking about hubby not child) 2 not having the strenth to put my foot down and not let him get his own way all the time 3 letting him put all of his wants and needs before anyone else. 4 etc..... etc.... etc.... I could go on forever. and i seem to make either the same mistakes or different ones everyday.

my biggest mistake in my marriage i had made was getting married in the first place. i was 16 and got married to a guy after being with him for only 4 months. shortly after i wanted to leave but couldn't cause i was too scared and confused and he was all i knew at the time. a month before our one year he went to jail and i was finally free. it made me realize i didn't need him. i didn't deserve to be treated that way. and neither did my son. i just got married way to young and for no good reason he wasn't even my sons father.

I woudl beleive that my biggest mistake was being a push over . Showing that I cared to fast and that I would stick by no matter what happened in our relationship making my spouse believe that nothing will ever cause me to leave the relationship therefore not wanting to discuss important issues in our relationship .