Is a WOMAN's WEIGHT GAIN a TURN OFF FOR MEN???:)
By kooulet
@kooulet (69)
Philippines
May 20, 2007 10:43am CST
Ladies, let's face it, the trend is more like leaning on the skinny and slim side of the universe. But of course, the sexy ones still reign on the pedestal. But if you are in a relationship, you used to be really slim. Then, as time goes by, you felt really happy and well taken care of in the relationship. It can't be denied that we feel so loved and accepted, making us miss the thought of making ourselves look great and sexy for our men. We start to gain a pound for the the ice cream that both of us enjoy. It is undeniable that men love to eat and so do we. Will the weight gain affect how they see us as their princesses?:) Will the extra pounds turn men off?
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5 responses
@huilee (1005)
• Singapore
4 Jun 07
I guess it will...
Men loves sexy woman...
They love to see pretty woman, whats more their own girl...
I do noe of people who dun like their gf as attractive as other girls as they fear that their gf will be easily influenced and woo away by others...
But as what i think...
Which guy doesnt likes pretty girl?
Which guy will be turn off by pretty girls?
I always think that i must remain attractive so that my bf will still love me like before...
Of coz im not perfect...
More on the flabby side, but im trying...
=P
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@sjohnson628 (3197)
• United States
20 May 07
In my situation my honey loves me just the "weigh" I am. LOL! I do need to lose about 25 pounds that I have gained since I have been with him in the last 2 years. But he never once complains and always gives me compliments and affection and love. So I think if it is true love it won't matter.
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@Killamurk07 (67)
• United States
24 May 07
humm...I really don't know. I have to say no and yes well...It depends..I won't get no further until you say its ok
@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
18 Aug 07
We are expected to look like Barbie and weigh nothing and eat nothing. We must be groomed at all times, and keep a clean house. We must keep the kids clean and well behaved plus keep a full time job. Men can eat and weigh extra. They need to work only their job and take their one shower.
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The old stereo types remain in full force. That's why I'm 39 and still single.
@Melissa528 (744)
• United States
28 May 07
I just got out of a 6 year relationship and at the start of our relationship I was VERY thin. I gained about 60 pounds in 6 years (partly because of pregnancy and partly because I love food) and although he didn't directly tell me that my weight gain bothered him I could tell it did. He would make comments like "your sexy as it is but you will look REALLY good if you lost 30lbs" and blah, blah, blah so I do think that extreme weight gain could be a turn off even though they may say otherwise.
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