how did you meet your boyfriend?
By jbelle
@jbelle (912)
Philippines
May 25, 2007 3:02am CST
Me and my boyfriend meet at my aunt's house, that was the time he arrive from work outside the country. i think it was destined to be happened since i dont usually go to my aunt's house i just visit her since she is sick. Then my boyfriend notice me from then on, he courted me before he left for work i say my sweet yes to him until now were already on the 3rd years still happy with each other's arms and pray for a lasting relationship. how about you? please share your love story...
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9 responses
@020788 (78)
• Philippines
25 May 07
When I was still in my elementary years in school, my recent boyfriend was already my schoolmate. He was fond of teasing me at the corridor while I am doing the cleaning stuffs with my co-cleaners, I just remembered. What he usually do was to tease me of my mole near my right ear that it was something that's like a raisin or black mucus that came out from my nose and ran towards that area where it's located. But I just don't mind him because he's a nobody to me that time. When we reached high school, we were still attending the same academy and we got no connections at all. We were casual friends I should say that will just glance each other and say something to one another once in a blue moon. During our sophomore years then, he courted me without my clue. I didn't know that he liked me since we were so so kids!haha..Unfortunately, I didn't give him a chance since he wasn't consistent in courting me. I had boyfriends then that took years. When we were seniors, he again courted me and still the same happened - he was busted! After our graduation in high school I never ever saw him. I just can hear informations about him through my friends who've got connections to him but all of those infos were nothing, they were unnecessary to me. After three years, I decided to just chill so I went online. I'm fond of chatting that's why I ended joining the mIRC. Coincidence I may say, I read a name and found it interesting, so I pm the user. Puff! It was him. My longtime suitor, my friend, my classmate, whom now - turned out to be my lover! From that time that we chatted, we exchanged numbers, and decided to give each other another try and hoping to end up with something different. Then it really happened. We are happily in love until today and no regrets in all things that happened. I say, it's really destiny!
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@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Since I am a guy, i would like to share one story of mine if you don't mind. I haven't really been into a serious,long lasting relationship yet. I have had girlfriends before but I guess it never really worked out in the long run. Anyway, what I am about to share to you is about a girl I have met during college. She didn't became my girlfriend but I guess i just want to share this.
I was into my senior year in college. It was "Cheerleading Season" that time. Different organizations within the same college were pretty busy recruiting and practicing for the BIG DAY. I have had classmates joined within one of the major organizations composed of seniors and juniors. These classmates of mine wanted me to join the team. They were one week into practice already but lacking male dancers. They asked me for help. I told me I am going to try it out just to see if I would be fit for the competition. One evening (since practices are after classes only) they introduced me to the trainer and I told him if I could try out for the night only. A few cheer dancers arrived, I knew some of them. Now, the juniors arrived, and there it hit me. Could it be the most beautiful girl in the world?
And there I saw her. I couldn't really tell if I actually fell for her. She was pretty, tall, beautiful but simple. My kind of girl really. Eventually I have decided not to join the team but I joined the Pep Squad instead of the same organization. I still get the chance to see her. Fortunately, my classmate knew her. I asked her if it would be alright to ask for her number. The girl approved. To my surprise, she was the one who kept on calling me. For the first month, I think we had something going but nothing really official. We went out together a number of times, ate together, i walked her home, talked over the phone, in short, we kept on seeing each other socially.
One day, I decided to ask her officially if I could court her. Close friends of mine told me to ask her that. I knew somehow it wouldn't be a good idea, but I did eventually. As I did, she declined indirectly. If I haven't ask her that, I bet she would be my girlfriend by now. It is a little confusing but I don't want to go into details for that. All i can say if i really haven't ask for that, it would be the two of us. Oh well... No hard feelings.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Thank you johanes for sharing your story. if you really like her then continue the friendship that you both have started. Its a girl nature thatif we were asked to be courted we usually say no! "pakipot effect" but its our way of testing guys if he is really sincere, don't lose hope johanes. As you have said you go out together. You know if we don't like the guy, we don't go out with him, what a waste of time and effort, right? so i think she also like you. Just be patient.
If you really like the girl you will wait till she can appreciate your effort. ok?
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@brandonmagsino (639)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
unfortunately, i guess i can't follow that advice of yours any longer. but thanks though for the advice. the mystery girl in my response has a new boyfriend already. but no hard feeling at all. you gain some, you lose some. =)
@marjonelle (798)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Wow! That's what you called destiny. You are really meant for each other. It only proves that you don't have to look for love, love will come in God's time.
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@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I meet mine in our school. We're classmates since our first year in College. I never thought he would be my first and probably the last boyfriend in my life.
He's my bestfriend's bestfriend. So we're always together but I'm not that close to that guy. Until one day I started to tease him for courting a girl who's with the same name as mine. I told him him why he had to court another girl when I was already there, ready and available. I was not that serious that time, I don't mean it. But then as time passes by I've noticed him being too good to me. I started to wonder of his intentions for me until one day he started to court me. I rejected him thrice I guess but he never stop. I don't have any special feelings for him, I have a crush with one of my closest friend who's about to court me but was taken by another woman in our school. It really hurts to lose that someone special in my life but I guess it's a blessing in disguise. I'm sure HE gives me the best one for me.
One day I've heard that he's about to court another student in our school, I don't know why I feel hurt that time. I just hide my feelings in front of my bestfriend. I wanted to cry but need to be strong enough. I started to avoid the guy for some time while he keeps on asking why? Of course I have to hide my feelings for it and ask for that thing. He explained that it's true but decided not to pursue because he've found out that the girl had a boyfriend already. After that day he continue courting me and anwered him "yes" after a month.
Now we're in our 8th years in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Going stronger and moving on.
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@pricklechime (12)
• Philippines
26 May 07
I met my boyfriend and now my fiance during the rigodon practice for a fiend's 18th birthday, him as the escort...im quite a snobbish/reserved type of lady so thru his friend he asked for my name..he's quite shy at that time though..the birthday celebration passed,a friendship-as-well-as-courtship grew and after a month came another birthday of a friend,at which I gave the yes..
Now we are on our 7th year and having a God-centered, sweet,happy and strong relationship...
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@coolchai (753)
• Philippines
26 May 07
actually its how i met my husband, i met my husband at work. we have this factory agency and he is one of the factory workers there. so in 3 yrs time he has accomplished to talk to me and be honest with me. i saw his sincerity that time and we fell in love in just weeks and now we have a wonderful baby that we love so much =)
@maple_kisses (2156)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Hi j, I don't have a boyfriend right now, but I always thought my meeting with one of my ex-bf has been very memorable to me. Well, I used to admire him from the distance and he was such a snob kid when we were young. Maybe he doesn't even know my name. Yup, we were in the same community when we were kids but then they moved away when I was in highschool so I never saw him again.
One sunny morning, I went to a college to enroll, I was walking, minding my own business, somewhat reading the form that i just got from the registrar's office when a guy bumped on me hard he had to catch me from falling. He appeared to be reading a form too and was walking really fast because he was in a hurry. Of course it was my ex-bf! :) Well, he became a boyfriend after almost 6 months of classroom fights, and then an ex after almost 2 years of wonderful relationship.... a beautiful beginning, sad ending though :)
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@lovboop24 (51)
• Philippines
26 May 07
Actually our relationship is really a by product of new technology,i met my boyfriend who is now my husband through texting,he is actually my friends cousin and my friend gave him my number,and he texted me.so and so forth.until such time we decided to meet.from there on we kept on texting and calling each other.until he courted me.it was nice because we became friends first.so when the time he courted me.it would be easier for us then.we became boyfriends and girlfriends for 3 years until i got pregnant and decided to get married.but before i got pregnant we already have planned to get married its just happend that i got pregnant.and we have a pretty little girl.and no matter what obstacle we have we always face our problems together.im happy to have him in my life.
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