If you can choose,would you let ur husband/wife work in a different city/country

our vice president have the same condition.her boyfriend is a seaman too,and everyday they can just send short message to express their miss.if I can choose,I will not let my husband work in another city,because the distance is a bad question actually.there is much thing that you can not say frankly by telephone or message,then misunstanding will come true.

well, let me think... If it's going to help us a great deal financially, like we're really really poor and desperate for money, then we'd risk it. But I really prefer not to be far away from each other. I'd be very lonely without my husband.

Personally, I don't think long distance relationships are healthy. Even for couples that are not married, in the boyfriend girlfriend stage, being in different countries for long periods puts unnecessary strain on the relationship. sometimes, we say that love is more than the physical. but it is equally as impt to have your loved one near enough to share your sorrows and joys. And so you can grow together. I've witnessed relationships where because of distance, the couple grew apart, and started having different life goals. It's difficult to maintain a relationship then. Especially difficult for sailors since she can't join him at his work, and he's open to temptation at every port. all the best though...