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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 25 Oct 15

Do you remember your first trick or treat as a child or even your child's treat or trick? Last Saturday was our office's trick or treat event for employees and their kids. I brought my 1 year old son and this was his first trick...

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purplehaze kids do have so much fun than we did before right? i also didnt practice trick or treating when i was a child but i am also not sure if i would have wanted to dress up in costumes either

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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 25 Oct 15

Do you remember your first trick or treat as a child or even your child's treat or trick? Last Saturday was our office's trick or treat event for employees and their kids. I brought my 1 year old son and this was his first trick...

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scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 19 Oct 15

I may have to stay back in the office for 2 hours or more tomorrow just to clear the work. There is no extra pay for overtime, and no allowance for staying, not even transport allowance for me to take a cab home. Working for free...

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purplehaze @scheng1 yes i think it is just fair to give employees regardless of their income level, their fair due. if they render more hours at work, then they should be paid for it or at least give them extra time off to offset the extra hours.

25 Oct 15

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

In our culture, baby boys are more welcome and more people wanted to have baby boys especially the first child. Although there are still some people who prefer girls for their first baby. What about you? If you are only to have...

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purplehaze people say baby boys are more active so you have to chase them all around the house, unlike girls who are more prim and proper. and yes, the dressing part is so much fun if you have a baby girl. although it also means more expenses hehe

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Michael Liriano @BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351) • West Haven, Connecticut 19 Oct 15

One of my twin daughters has a little fever since last night and its killing me slowly. I bathed her last night and let her sleep on my chest and she cooled down a bit but had me up all night coughing and tossing and turning....

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purplehaze @BACONSTRIPSXXX i am glad to hear your daughter is fine now :) keep up the good work as a caring and loving daddy

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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze yes, i also recently bought a cctv camera and placed it in our house. so far so good :)

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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze yeah, actually we recently bought and put a cctv camera already in our house to make me more at ease while at work. at least now i can now monitor in case the babysitter does not take good care of my baby.

25 Oct 15

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze it's really hard right? you are torn between your job and your baby and as much as we know that our baby is the most important, we still cannot lose our job as well..

25 Oct 15

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze unfortunately, i cannot afford to stay at home and quit my job as the money that we are earning now is just enough to cover all the expenses that we have.

25 Oct 15

Yasser Mattar @yeezermac (145) • Singapore, Singapore 20 Oct 15

Everyone has something we want and something we don't want. We look at Jason across the office and we want to share his skills in IT. We don't want him to get too close though becuase he'll talk our ear off about some inane...

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purplehaze @yeezermac that is why as the saying goes, "you do not need a thousand friends.. but only a few who you know are true"

20 Oct 15

Michael Liriano @BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351) • West Haven, Connecticut 19 Oct 15

One of my twin daughters has a little fever since last night and its killing me slowly. I bathed her last night and let her sleep on my chest and she cooled down a bit but had me up all night coughing and tossing and turning....

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purplehaze you are a very good and responsible father. usually fathers worry about their kids but not all will do all those extra things like bathing her and putting her to sleep especially if the mom is around. when i was still single, i know that all parents have this...

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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze @wiLLmaH i did think of that option but i find it very hard to trust baby sitters from agencies because i never know if the one i will get is nice or not. I guess it's one of the problems i cannot avoid especially here in the philipines where you never know...

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KnehKnah @KnehKnah (3584) • Philippines 10 Oct 15

Never waste your time arguing over petty things. Instead, resolve the issue with calm heads & emotions. Learn to forgive & forget. Never be "historical". There is more to enjoy in life than to push your very own self to...

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purplehaze thank you for your advice. For the line Never be "historical", i find this hard to abide. I find that i am a person who finds it really hard to forget the bad things that was done to me. For example, when my husband was still my bf, he cheated on me once and i...

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KnehKnah @KnehKnah (3584) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

I am not a difficult person. In fact, I haven't had any misunderstanding with anyone the past years. So, I can say I have a peaceful life, despite its simplicity. I don't wish for too much. But we have a very happy family, thanks...

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purplehaze wow you are lucky to have led a peaceful life and a happy family. but unfortunately, that is really how our world works.. there are really some people who seem to find happiness in other people's misery which is why they like giving other people a hard time....

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purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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purplehaze actually, every other week i leave my baby with my mom who helps take care of my baby. but that means that i also will not be able to see my baby every other week since we live far from my parents. But for those days/weeks where my baby stays with us, we do...

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Macarrosel @Macarrosel (7498) • Philippines 18 Oct 15

If I have all the money in the world, aside from being a philanthropist or helping the poor and the needy people, I will buy a small island where I build a nice small house, a chapel where I pray and meditate, a WiFi to continue...

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purplehaze first, i would set some money aside already to my family and kid to ensure that they will have enough to last them for a lifetime if in case I am no longer around. Then of course i will donate some too to some charity or organizations who really need the...

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ungu89 @ungu89 (1999) • Malaysia 19 Oct 15

Hello & Good day to all myLot.... I'm nurul from Malaysia.. i was here back then on 2012.. kindly stop being involve here for long time until today, just found a lot of my stuff, everything i involve back then via online.. love...

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purplehaze Hi Nurul! Welcome back! we are the same i was a member here several years ago but then stopped. i just came back too 2 days ago and found that a lot of things have changed already. You may revisit the Help topics so you can find out more about the changes that...

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Felicia Jiang @FeliciaLingXi (28) • Wenzhou, China 19 Oct 15

Hi!I'm Felicia.I'm a new here.And I'm a Chinese year 8 student. My English is poor,so,I'm going to practice my English language skill by discussing with others(I don't know whether I have some grammar mistakes...

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purplehaze welcome to mylot felicia! do not worry, as long as people can understand you , no one will criticize you in case your grammar is not correct. What is important here is that we communicate and share our thoughts and feelings with other users. :)

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INDIAN WOMAN @hema7213 (3517) • India 20 Oct 15

I felt so hard to ignore a person which is a my close friend at a time......you never know what happen in your life . your friend turn into enemy and your enemy become your friends...........................

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purplehaze @hema7213 if you are the better person,maybe you can just be civil and deal with the person professionally. But if there is no need to talk to him/her within the office, then just ignore the person. I understand how you feel because it hurts the most if it was...

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scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 19 Oct 15

I may have to stay back in the office for 2 hours or more tomorrow just to clear the work. There is no extra pay for overtime, and no allowance for staying, not even transport allowance for me to take a cab home. Working for free...

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purplehaze I would only agree to stay overtime for work for more than 2 hours if there is an overtime pay. If it is just one hour or less, I would not mind even if there is no pay but only if it is really needed and it is not frequent. Sometimes we need to sacrifice a...

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