For you, young couples... / myLot

Philippines

October 10, 2015 11:12am CST

Never waste your time arguing over petty things. Instead, resolve the issue with calm heads & emotions. Learn to forgive & forget. Never be "historical". There is more to enjoy in life than to push your very own self to destruction by being always mad & sad. Love life. You have but one.

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@allknowing (137530)

• India

11 Oct 15

But what you hear from these young couples in the real world, if you offer them advice is 'Don't lecture' May be you are safe here

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@allknowing (137530)

• India

11 Oct 15

@KnehKnah Depends how close you are to them that they take the liberty to say that

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KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

11 Oct 15

@allknowing I agree with you, my dear.

KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

11 Oct 15

If they tell me that, isn't it being rude to an elderly lady who just want a happier life for them, my dear? Ha! Ha! Ha!

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crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39509)

• United States

11 Oct 15

so very true, but one needs a spouse who's with ya'n this 'f i fear it jest don't work :( 'course that means ya more'n likely made a bad choice, eh? big hugs 'n i keep ya in my heart.

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crazyhorseladycx

@crazyhorseladycx (39509)

• United States

11 Oct 15

@KnehKnah seems such only applies if'n they get their way sadly. i dunno what all the yellin' 'n cursin' is fer myself. the hubs enjoys such confrontations, i jest walk 'way.... love ya!

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KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

3 Nov 15

@crazyhorseladycx Lab yah too! And yes, I also don't like arguing with anyone, my dearest Manay. If there is something which my dearly beloved & I can't agree on outright, we just talk about it. I believe that's the best attitude on anything with anyone. If Manoy Hubs seems to enjoy it maybe it's in his jest moment. He! He! He!

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purplehaze

@purplehaze (661)

• Philippines

20 Oct 15

thank you for your advice. For the line Never be "historical", i find this hard to abide. I find that i am a person who finds it really hard to forget the bad things that was done to me. For example, when my husband was still my bf, he cheated on me once and i never forget about it. So, sometimes, i would bring it up especially when i get mad at him about other things.

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KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

19 Nov 15

I know how you felt, my friend. But, I hope you still feel that love for him.

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@amnabas (14611)

• Karachi, Pakistan

10 Oct 15

Great concised thread to lead a happy life.

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KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

10 Oct 15

Yes, my dear. Was inspired to write about this after reading a discussion about a sad relationship.

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@Pinakikrishshna (14)

• Kolkata, India

11 Oct 15

Very good advice but their youth stands in the way of keeping their cool. They will get it over as they grow mature.

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KnehKnah

@KnehKnah (3584)

• Philippines

11 Oct 15

Thank you, my friend. Most of our young couples are impulsive & unreasonable. It will take years for them to appreciate the value of patience & understanding.