purplehaze

@purplehaze (661)

Philippines • Age 41

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Happy trick or treat!

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 25 Oct 15

Do you remember your first trick or treat as a child or even your child's treat or trick? Last Saturday was our office's trick or treat event for employees and their kids. I brought my 1 year old son and this was his first trick...

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It's so hard to find a decent babysitter nowadays..

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 20 Oct 15

Ever since i have given birth, i find it really hard to look for a decent babysitter who is trustworthy and will take care of my baby well. My husband and i are both working and I cannot afford to quit my job and be a full time...

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what is the best way to handle or accept a compliment?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

I grew up as a kid who used to be always teased by other people because of how different i look from my brother and sisters. This led me to grow up as a lady with not much self confidence. However, there are times when someone...

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Do you always make time to catch up with all your friends?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

For the last year, it's been busy for me as I have my own family now and a baby. The whole week I spend my time working and while on weekends, I rest at home and spend time with my family and baby. It is just recently when a...

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If you are going to have only one child, do you prefer it to be a boy or a girl?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

In our culture, baby boys are more welcome and more people wanted to have baby boys especially the first child. Although there are still some people who prefer girls for their first baby. What about you? If you are only to have...

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Is it okay to hide money from your partners?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 19 Oct 15

Do you think that people should not hide money from their partners? I ask because my husband and I are both working. Since i am the one who budgets all the expenses, my husband gives his salary to me. However, sometimes, I hide...

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Typhoon please go away and spare our country

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 18 Oct 15

Our country is experiencing heavy typhoon now with rain and very strong winds. A lot of provinces are already flooding and I heard from the news that some kids are already missing because of the flood. :( I pray that the typhoon...

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how can we stop cyberbullying?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 18 Oct 15

Social media is the latest trend nowadays where we can do a lot of things (eg sharing, making friends, selling things, advertising, fashion tips, comments about showbiz and politics) that it can even make a person, thing, or event...

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old user coming back to the new mylot

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 18 Oct 15

Hi MyLot friends! I am very happy to know today that MyLot is back. Although I just found out accidentally because one user replied to a post i made several years ago! I am happy that now I can post my thoughts again in an...

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i heard from the news this morning that a baby was kidnapped from a hospital..

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 May 11

i felt really sad for the 18 year old mother who has just given birth in a public hospital because she found out that her baby girl was stolen right at the hospital! A day after giving birth, a nurse came to take the baby and told...

baby

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is 911 or your local emergency hotline really helpful or effective?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 May 11

i have been blessed that i havent had the need yet to call local emergency hotlines like 911 but sometimes i wonder, if there will come a time that i need to, are they really helpful and efficient? Do rescue people really come to...

911

emergency hotlines

fire

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is "career growth" still a good reason to say during interviews when looking for

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 May 11

When you are interviewing for a new job and the interviewer asks you why you want to leave your present employer, is the answer " career growth" still an acceptable answer? How do you answer the question if the real reason why you...

career growth

interview

work

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For parents out there--do you have favoritism over your children? for the kids,

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 May 11

I feel sympathetic over a friend who works really hard and long hours (10-11 hours a day) just to earn enough to support her family. She doesnt complain about this but recently, when her mom would make her do household chores, she...

favoritism

parents

sibling

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how many times is enough when your partner is cheating on you?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 15 May 11

it's really sad to hear a lot of stories or experiences wherein girls are being cheated on by their husbands or partners. i know that it is the nature of girls in general to be forgiving and soft and it is also taught by the Bible...

cheating

husband

partner

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What do fathers really feel when walking their daughters down the aisle?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 16 Apr 11

one of my favorite wedding songs is butterfly kisses by bob carlisle. the song is really very meaningful and sweet and i also hope that when i get married someday, this would be played while my dad walks me down the aisle. now,...

fathers

marriage

wedding song

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what is the most effective whitening soap or lotion can you refer? or tips?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 10 Apr 11

i am a fair-skinned girl who wants to have lighter or whiter skin. i have tried different brands of whitening soaps and lotions already but it seems that my skin is not getting any whiter. please help to refer an effective one for...

lotion

soap

whitening

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Do you buy products depending on the model or celebrity who is endorsing it?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 10 Apr 11

when i watch tv and the commercials, it seem that for every product in the supermarket, it is being endorsed by celebrities or famous models. From clothes, to bags, to shoes, to beauty products, to cologne or perfume, and even to...

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have you tried scratching your fork into a glass plate?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 3 Apr 11

Have you tried scratching your fork into a glass plate? Do you get the same tingling annoying feeling I get? What is it called? i really get so annoyed when i feel it so when i am eating, i get really careful especially when...

eating

feeling

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Weekend finally! time for mylot..I always have a hard time alloting time during

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 2 Apr 11

Weekend! time for mylot.. I always have a hard time alloting time during the weekend to do mylot. In the company im working with right now, using the internet for non-work related purpose is not allowed. if we get caught using...

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Should teh 18th birthday really be a big deal for a teenage girl?

purplehaze @purplehaze (661) • Philippines 26 Mar 11

I have grown up in a place where girls who turn 18 would celebrate their birthdays in a grand manner, some celebrating even in hotels. They say because it is a significant thing for a teenage girl as she is now turning into a...

birthday

celebration

debut

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