"My wife doesnt understand me"

That is the stupidest reason for cheating. It is most often a lie. Men know how to talk to women, because women are very emotional. They can identify with those lies, it makes it easier to deal with being the mistress of the married man. First of all, a man cheats because he isn't happy in his relationship or with himself. He feels that he has to prove something. Some men marry before they are ready to commit themselves fully and some men just cheat because they can. Most men do lie about why, even to themselves. It is necessary in most cases to lie to the lover, because she wouldn't be able to accept the truth and be ok with the cheating herself. Some women just don't care about the reasons. They do it because they can.

Try to understand why your wife is not understanding you. There may be some problems with your part also. try to rectify those parts which your wife does not like at all. and then let your wife to understand her mistakes. I am sure that this will work definitely

I don't know but men that cheat are skum. They're pieces of sh*t. "My wife doesn't understand me" is just a cheap excuse that they use to justify their behavior.

I think that it is just plain stupid to cheat. If there is something wrong in the relatiosnhip then speak up and say something. If you aren't willing to work at the relationship then leave. Don't belittle someone by having an affair. I have never cheated on anyone that I have been with. I know how it feels to have someone you love cheat on you, I wouldn't do that to someone else. I think the " i'm not undertstood" card gets played by both sexes when they decide to have an affair. And there is always someone out there that falls for it. No one wants to believe that they are attracted to a liar and a cheat.

You would think that women would be used to that old line, that they wouldn't believe it. I would be thinking that he married her so he must have loved her, and that he would soon be saying things about me. I hate people who lie. I'm interested in what the men have to say about this topic.

One time, i cheated my GF. Because i felt guilty. I just told her what i did. She broke up with me, but i just talk to him and explained what happened. Im just being hones with my Girlfriend. Because i love her.

they lie because they are low down all around creeps who really do not respect women, they think we are stupid and just need to be slept with and nothing more. I do not go with any man who has a wife regardless of whether she is good or bad, if she is all that bad get divorced and then we will talk. I do respect a man a little bit more if he says he loves to cheat and that is just how it is, it doesn't make it right but at least he is not a liar as well as a cheat.

ive heard that a few times in my life and my answer was always" oh no but I do now go away"

Oh my God - I hate it when men say that and I ask them a simple question - how come your wife understood you all this while and you loved her enough that you married her and now all of a sudden she is the worst person on earth???! They never have an answer to that - at least not a straight one... The fact is that life is hard and relationships are even harder - as life takes us through difficult times we want more from our partners who in turn may want the same from us and/or partners get tired of fighting life that they neglect the partner and thus, the gap begins. One day you wake up and true enough, you are sleeping next to a person that you don't really understand beacuse he/she has grown strange to you... In a relationship you need to work constantly at it-