She did it again

if it were me the next time she called to make plans I would tell her I am too busy and then I would do it a couple more times and see if she keeps it up

I would stop making plans with her. The next time she calls to set something up, tell her that you are sorry, but you already have plans and don't give her any details or anything, just hang up. You could also turn the tables on her and the next time she wants to do something, say sure and then call her back and cancel on her. She will either get the message and change her behavoir or she will stop calling you all together. Either way, you win.

I'd blow her off for good. Just tell her that you don't have time to prepare for her bogus plans any longer to have her call back and cancel on you. She doesn't sound like a friend if she cancels with you and goes off with another friend.

That sucks!! I wouldn't worry about making any plans with her anymore!! Or if you do let her know that you are getting ready to hang out with her and don't want to be left hanging! Tell her that you go out and buy goodies for ya'll and everything and when she doesn't show up you are disappointed. Just say it in a nice way and maybe she will get the hint. I would be tempted to cancel on her the next time though, just so she can see what it feels like. But that wouldn't be nice =)

Hi nicolecab! well ask about me, i am a married woman and have a kid, and when i got married i end up my habit of going out with my friends, specially this days that i have my son actually his 5yrs old and im 7yrs married, and my husband is always onboard but when he's on vacation we always go out and spending quality time together, like watching movie and going to mall or in any other places...the only thing i do now is go to work every morning and go straight to my house after work because my son is waiting for me... no night life and no hang out with my friends anymore.. i am a devoted wife and mother.. but that's just my opinion.. Well if you have a child to take care of, dont go out with friends anymore... just take care of you baby and wait till your husband came into your house.. and when you're husband is off to his work try to ask to go malling or watch movie.. spend quality time together..