The trust and the predisposal
By magica
@magica (3707)
Bulgaria
May 27, 2007 1:58pm CST
Is it possible to have complete 100% trust between two people? We say: you win my trust...you deserve/ or not my trust...predispose me to trust...
Do you think that you can predispose people to trust you? And do you need to be predisposed? Or the trust is something what comes spontaneously from the heart and you feel deeply in you the need and the desire to share your secrets with somebody special?
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3 responses
@frecklelip334 (1668)
• United States
27 May 07
i think it just comes with certain territories...for some people it's like you can FEEL you can trust them, others not so much. a lot of people are good at reading others and how they act/respond to things...you can also put people to the test. tell them something odd and see if they can be trusted with it. tell them something that if it gets out oh well. BUT then you will know if they are trustworthy. also by the way they respond to what you are trusting them with. people react to things differently!
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@Sherry12 (2472)
• United States
28 May 07
I do think it is important that we have someone we can share our thoughts with. I'm not a very trusting person, so I'm very careful about who I say things to. I believe 100% trust is possible, but it is very hard to find someone you can trust that much.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
28 May 07
what are your feelings on this issue?
we live in such a world that people have trusted and were lied too,
now many people feel trust must be earned before a complete trust is given.
if every one was honest there would be no reason not to trust but because people are not always honest this is what happens.
If you go out and meet someone who could be a boyfriend or girlfriend in the future,
do you necessarily trust if he or she says they are single.
I don't because many guys lie and say they are single and they are not. They are married.
So this person would have to earn my trust.
