After marriage a girl should work or not?
By lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
India
6 responses
@cutygirl (576)
• India
31 May 07
I want to work after marriage, I am not sure that I can do or not, if my work will make my family condition worse then I will leave it,because my husband, his parents and our children come first in life, every other things are secondary.. nice discussion dude I have rated '+' to you
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@jolly223 (73)
• United States
31 May 07
I was married once and didn't work... when he divorced me I lost everything and had to move back in with my parents (that or a homeless shelter). Anyway, I made up my mind then I wouldn't let this happen to myself again. I plan to work if I ever get married again.
@inked4life (4224)
• United States
31 May 07
I don't think a man has the right to decide whether or not his wife should work after marriage. That is either up to her or a decision made together assuming that they are planning on starting a family. After I married my wife we started a family and she continued to work and I stay home with the kids. I think it's a very antiquated idea that men have to be the bread winners while women stay home and clean and look after the kids.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
1 Jun 07
I like to work after marriage, I think I should be independent on economy, then I will have a happy marriage.
If I married a very rich man , I would not work after marriage, but I had to find my interest.
It is not true to marry a rich man for me, so I have to work hard for my living. My bf and I are going to get married this year, and he thinks I have to work, then I can buy a house in my city. It is a large amount of money for us. But we will try our best to live a better life.
@babie_mo_ko16 (15)
• Philippines
31 May 07
If I were a man, I wouldn't hinder my wife inachieving his career goal if that will improve her well being, just as long as she doesn't neglect her responsibility as a wife and mother. I also want to achieve something for myself and step up the career path.. Just don't be too proud that your earning much and slap it on your husbands face. Respect should come with it. It can be hard on the husband too because of the male pride and ego..
