msBetty

@msBetty (83)

Philippines • Age 42

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love someone but who i can not stay togeather

nicholaYa @nicholaYa (121) 31 May 09

I love someone. really indeed love she..but i can not stay togeather with she..We are in the different city..sometimes im thinking if i need back her city work there and stay there..but i really dont if it worth me do it.cause if...

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msBetty You have to make things out in order for you to find the best way to survive with this relationship. Sometimes it requires some sacrifice for you to sustain the long distance relationship.

3 Jun 09

eternity ring

msBetty @msBetty (83) • Philippines 3 Jun 09

Anyone here who have or wanted to have an eternity ring? what does it really signifies in you life? or was that only part of your jewelry collection? At this point, It suddenly came to me that I really need to have an eternity...

How did you meet your signifigant other and who made the first move?

mztucker @mztucker (3) • United States 30 May 09

Personally I meet my man thru my X husband....he made the first move. I had a secret crush on him that I would have never acted on but one night he sent text messages to my cell phone telling me that I deserved better....this was...

love

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msBetty I meet my husband during college, he was intoduced by my friend. I didn't like him at first, but he's so persistent and able to get my attention by proving hhow m uch he like me, According to him, it was love at first sight.

31 May 09

Is it okay for you to be friends with an ex?

cecillecarmela @cecillecarmela (3818) • Philippines 28 May 09

Personally it's a no no.. I don't know but I'm just the type who will never give back a trust that had been broken. Many times my former boyfriend attempted to be friends with me, I tried but it was really hard on my part...

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msBetty I agree... you can always ba d to your ex considring first of what others nay think and for your loved ones sake. Constant communication can be done without being too close as like before.

29 May 09

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Which is better a large or small wedding?

ctrich91 @ctrich91 (52) • United States 25 May 09

Might be getting married soon and I was wondering how my fellow "Lotters" might go about it. Should I have a large or a small wedding? A large wedding is nice because it is beatiful to have a lot of people clebrate with you but...

wedding

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msBetty I agree. it depends on you both, try to discuss this matter, considering your financial capability and your preferences. Ofcourse, who else does not want a grand celebration in this special day? But you have to consider your priority and be wise on...

27 May 09

Why do you think that a person who are divorced are afraid to marry again?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 26 May 09

Need help changing your mind, moving from fear of aloneness to knowing you are meant to be connected and loved? Are you afraid to be commitment again? or you are afraid to be alone? To much years, alone, and now is hard to...

marriage

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msBetty I believe that they were not afraid, just simply not finding the right person to be with. Or just being extra careful and learned their lessons well. Its not everyday that we meet a person who has the magic to make us fall in love again.

27 May 09

Wont be getting married anytime soon

queenlove @queenlove (495) • United States 27 May 09

I want to get married but the one I am with is not very dependable. I am afraid if we get married, I will be the one paying all the bills and taking care of everything on my own. That is how it is now. We have been together for 11...

dependable

marriage

security

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msBetty somehow, i can relate. I keep my faith of having him changed as years pass by. But guess what? its still the same. We're married now, thats why the least thing I could do is to accept him as he is. And be the strong person that i used to be...

27 May 09

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marriage is a suicidal thing......

jlovetin @jlovetin (150) • Philippines 27 May 09

well i know that many will disagree with this...but on my opinion i think marriage is a lifetime commitment..it will become suicidal for those who was been married with a wrong person or they've got married with a person that they...

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msBetty yeah. you have to make sure that you see yourself being with the same person for the rest of your life, otherwise, that's too late for regrets.

27 May 09

Is it better to have loved and lost or to never have loved at all?

dlsasmartypant @dlsasmartypant (48) • United States 27 May 09

I was recently talking to a friend and we stumbled across the classic dilemma of whether or not it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I passionately argued that it is always better to experience love...

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msBetty Yup! everybody has to experience love... it goes with it, sadness, pain, and yes, even temporary madness. And you'll nevery understand your own existence withuot having love in ur life.

27 May 09

Do you think that most of the love marriages are not successful?

abhishek111 @abhishek111 (377) • India 27 May 09

I got some information from a recent survey that most of the love marriages are not successful. That is most of the love marriages are not long lasting. Whereas arranged marriages are quite successful on the other hand. Based on...

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msBetty very true... Or maybe the couple were very much inlove at that time when they got married. But, there's a thing called falling out of love. Maybe thats the reason why it fails.

27 May 09

can money buy love????hmmmm

jlovetin @jlovetin (150) • Philippines 27 May 09

nowadays on my opinion people are just being practical now...usually women(please don't get offended,,no intention to offend anyone :)) more are becoming practical now in terms of love...they will choose someone who can give them...

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msBetty I agree... Maybe you can also learn to love that certain person, but true love only comes once. You can choose to be practical and forget the very true love of yours, coz it never comes along with what you have chosen.

27 May 09

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is love everything for

Ritika @ritika02 (214) • India 27 May 09

yes, love is everything for me if it is true from both side, in my life i choose love than money, and i married with a person who was not earning much that time but now we both are earning and leading a good life , according to me...

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msBetty Never choose money over love... but on the other hand, i can't blame those who do. Practicality as they say, living a more comfortable life is what they all up to. You can always choose between what's more important to you, and the things that you need...

27 May 09

How do you celebrate your anniversary?

ibelle09 @ibelle09 (155) • China 24 May 09

Tomorrow is our first wedding anniversary. We are now wondering how to celebrate this important day. We plan to go to the best restaurant here to enjoy a big meal and then if we have time, we will go somewhere to relax...

anniversary

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msBetty Just the same.. we dine out, spend few hours just walking hand in hand, like we were dating just like before way back when we're still in college.

24 May 09

first love...????

MANSHAA @MANSHAA (324) • India 22 May 09

is first love always the true....??? can first love be forgotten....??? every thing in love is impossible to forget your first love...yes first love is always true and the best which would not be forgotten throughout...

first love

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msBetty Good/ bad memories... but its all worth it. I can never forget how special he is, always remain as a big part of my life...

22 May 09

first love...????

MANSHAA @MANSHAA (324) • India 22 May 09

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msBetty Wow! that's nice... I wished we can also go out as friends, coz as for me, i am the one who's already married so Im really afraid of what others may think if we go out. Ours was purely friendship, but people can misinterpret our closeness right now, so i...

22 May 09

can we force some one to love...???

MANSHAA @MANSHAA (324) • India 22 May 09

according to me... we cant force someone to love....as love just happens and we will never know abt that...if we force someone to fall in love then its not called love but its just infatuation...

love

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msBetty I agree... Thats why it is called "falling in love" you dont force or by any means... You just actually fall.

22 May 09

Do you still receive gift from your husband or wife?

mhethess @mhethess (379) • Philippines 19 May 09

Hi everyone especially to the married couple or the single out there who are about to marry soon. As I observed and interviewed couples I received almost the same answer, they don't received gifts from their husband or wife...

express your love

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msBetty Wow! thats sweet... i remember one time, i put a love note to my bf's wallet... We're married now, still peeking on his wallet for another reason though... haha! joke! =D

21 May 09