msBetty

@msBetty (83)

Philippines • Age 42

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love someone but who i can not stay togeather

nicholaYa @nicholaYa (121) 31 May 09

I love someone. really indeed love she..but i can not stay togeather with she..We are in the different city..sometimes im thinking if i need back her city work there and stay there..but i really dont if it worth me do it.cause if...

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msBetty You have to make things out in order for you to find the best way to survive with this relationship. Sometimes it requires some sacrifice for you to sustain the long distance relationship.

3 Jun 09

How did you meet your signifigant other and who made the first move?

mztucker @mztucker (3) • United States 30 May 09

Personally I meet my man thru my X husband....he made the first move. I had a secret crush on him that I would have never acted on but one night he sent text messages to my cell phone telling me that I deserved better....this was...

love

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msBetty I meet my husband during college, he was intoduced by my friend. I didn't like him at first, but he's so persistent and able to get my attention by proving hhow m uch he like me, According to him, it was love at first sight.

31 May 09

Why do you think that a person who are divorced are afraid to marry again?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 26 May 09

Need help changing your mind, moving from fear of aloneness to knowing you are meant to be connected and loved? Are you afraid to be commitment again? or you are afraid to be alone? To much years, alone, and now is hard to...

marriage

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msBetty I believe that they were not afraid, just simply not finding the right person to be with. Or just being extra careful and learned their lessons well. Its not everyday that we meet a person who has the magic to make us fall in love again.

27 May 09

Wont be getting married anytime soon

queenlove @queenlove (495) • United States 27 May 09

I want to get married but the one I am with is not very dependable. I am afraid if we get married, I will be the one paying all the bills and taking care of everything on my own. That is how it is now. We have been together for 11...

dependable

marriage

security

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msBetty somehow, i can relate. I keep my faith of having him changed as years pass by. But guess what? its still the same. We're married now, thats why the least thing I could do is to accept him as he is. And be the strong person that i used to be...

27 May 09

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marriage is a suicidal thing......

jlovetin @jlovetin (150) • Philippines 27 May 09

well i know that many will disagree with this...but on my opinion i think marriage is a lifetime commitment..it will become suicidal for those who was been married with a wrong person or they've got married with a person that they...

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msBetty yeah. you have to make sure that you see yourself being with the same person for the rest of your life, otherwise, that's too late for regrets.

27 May 09

Is it better to have loved and lost or to never have loved at all?

dlsasmartypant @dlsasmartypant (48) • United States 27 May 09

I was recently talking to a friend and we stumbled across the classic dilemma of whether or not it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I passionately argued that it is always better to experience love...

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msBetty Yup! everybody has to experience love... it goes with it, sadness, pain, and yes, even temporary madness. And you'll nevery understand your own existence withuot having love in ur life.

27 May 09

is love everything for

Ritika @ritika02 (214) • India 27 May 09

yes, love is everything for me if it is true from both side, in my life i choose love than money, and i married with a person who was not earning much that time but now we both are earning and leading a good life , according to me...

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msBetty Never choose money over love... but on the other hand, i can't blame those who do. Practicality as they say, living a more comfortable life is what they all up to. You can always choose between what's more important to you, and the things that you need...

27 May 09

How do you celebrate your anniversary?

ibelle09 @ibelle09 (155) • China 24 May 09

Tomorrow is our first wedding anniversary. We are now wondering how to celebrate this important day. We plan to go to the best restaurant here to enjoy a big meal and then if we have time, we will go somewhere to relax...

anniversary

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msBetty Just the same.. we dine out, spend few hours just walking hand in hand, like we were dating just like before way back when we're still in college.

24 May 09

Who loves you or who don't?

acematthews71 @acematthews71 (1084) • India 18 May 09

Yes friend, do you know, who loves you? And Who don't love you? It is not very easy way to know, who loves you or who don't. So, May be you are thinking, how it possible? It is possible as like as_ When you see, any person like...

guess

love

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msBetty Well, i once tried to find out who loves me more that the other. Turns out, I let go of them both. I said to myself that the one who'll stay, and fights to have me back, and really insist of having him in my life-- will be the one. Its a tough decision......

20 May 09

Will you always think of him/her?

zhdy89 @zhdy89 (301) • China 18 May 09

The lover that you did not have to come together,will you always think of him/her?I will always think of him,it seems that I can hear the voice of joy.Memories are always better...what about you?

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msBetty Yup! the moment that had passed, you can never have it back, you can never rewind or undo things that makes you end up with another person. But the memories you have had is more than enough to treasure for the rest of my life. Things happen. For some...

20 May 09

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Checking up on your Ex- on the net...

jimnemesis @jimnemesis (21) • Singapore 20 May 09

Have you ever tried to check up on your ex- online? Oftentimes checking up on their MySpace, Facebook or Friendster accounts? Or just Google-ing them up. Usually to see how they're doing... Or sometimes just to see if they're at...

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msBetty haha! have done it soooo many times, i have to admit, 'been checking until now... The good thing is, were friends, and i am not checking if he's in a worse situation or something, Just wanted to see him happy, even with someone else. His happiness means...

20 May 09

True Love can happen once in a lifetime

arkasen @arkasen (748) • India 20 May 09

Do you belief that or you belief that we can fall into true love more than once?? I personally feel that we can only fall in true love once in a lifetime. We may have more than one relations but all of them are not true love. I...

love in life

love once in a lifetime

one love

true love

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msBetty True for me. True love happens once in a lifetime. Sad truth is, we never realize that, you can have any other relationship but you can never hide from the feelings that you just had. Its a very special feeling that you can only feel for that particular...

20 May 09

Love on the interenet-is it a good idea?

pratik87 @pratik87 (1927) • India 20 May 09

We live in the age when the computer connected to the internet it's something normal and easy to make it. With the time, the internet became the place where a lot of people find them love or them partner. If my mother met my...

net love

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msBetty I know some who finds their mate through internet. But personally, for me? I am more comfortable in knowing a person by interacting with them in person. No pretentions, and i feel that a person have a little chance of hiding his true nature if you see them...

20 May 09

Is it Possible to Force Someone to Love You???

pratik87 @pratik87 (1927) • India 20 May 09

I think it is just impossible to get love forcefully, because if anywhere something is to be archived forcefully, then You could find 0% of Love. "Love is like a flower, give it some time, patience and lots of tender loving care;...

forced love

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msBetty You cannot force someone, Love sometimes is a decision that you have to make. Its rather "learning to love" not forcing someone to love you back. Its more of making someone realize to eventually learn to love you in return, but never making them love you...

20 May 09

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While making love what is your usual protection?

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 20 May 09

Its very essential to have some kind of protection to avoid unwanted pregnacy, often a contraception is used , whats your choice?

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msBetty my OB advice me to take contraceptive pills, I once tried injectables, but that doesn't suit me. Ive been using pills for a year now.

20 May 09

Why do people stay?

dianamunoz1 @dianamunoz1 (125) • United States 20 May 09

I am in a very rocky relationship and I do not want to leave I truly love this man and even thought we have had very hard moments we always work it out and continue ahead but Im just wondering is this how it should be always...

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msBetty Yup! I've always been told that if you really love someone, set him/her free... if it comes back, its truly yours... But I believe that if you truly love someone, fight for your love, that was true love is! Never give up on someone, and always find a reason...

20 May 09

Whats ur feeling.....

hollowheart @hollowheart (1572) • India 19 May 09

If u have been or would have been rejected by ur love...what would u have done? 1) U wouldnt really bother 2) U would promise to stay alone unless she came back to ur life 3) Be happy that u love her and shall continue to love...

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msBetty 3) Be happy that I have loved and continue loving him Inspite of the things that didn't work out, I styill treasure my happy moments with him .

19 May 09

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Do you still receive gift from your husband or wife?

mhethess @mhethess (379) • Philippines 19 May 09

Hi everyone especially to the married couple or the single out there who are about to marry soon. As I observed and interviewed couples I received almost the same answer, they don't received gifts from their husband or wife...

express your love

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msBetty We buy some things for each other when we have extra money or found things that we thought would compliments us. But not wrapped in special package as most presents do. Or just simply allowing my husband to buy things that he wants considering first our...

19 May 09