can money buy love????hmmmm
By jlovetin
@jlovetin (150)
Philippines
May 27, 2009 5:43am CST
nowadays on my opinion people are just being practical now...usually women(please don't get offended,,no intention to offend anyone :)) more are becoming practical now in terms of love...they will choose someone who can give them a good fortune wich is i think is practical in our time now..so i think if you have a lot of money..buying out love is not impossible anymore in our time...but of course there is still that choose their heart over wealth..
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@dhanyatnair (23)
• India
27 May 09
Your friend thinks that money can buy anything, but later he realize it when he does not get real love.
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@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
31 May 09
That's right. Money can buy love but not the real one. Being practical is good too but if it is already with regards to love, you also think you can not get real happiness.
@queennee (186)
• Philippines
28 May 09
yep,money can really buy love and its very common nowadays.women marries a man because of money and vise versa.i think wer'e just being practical,specially now that its crisis all over the world,who would refuse if there's an offer with lots of money? love will develop in the long run,you'll learn to love the person as years go by...:) good day!
@newstar117 (171)
• India
28 May 09
I think practically and we all know that money is an important factor in modern world.We cannot avoid it.Personally I do not believe in something called true love or real love.I think all the love in the modern world are for some benefits.Some may disagree with me but i believe so.
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@joanzz (174)
• Philippines
27 May 09
well, I do believe that many women now choosing men because of money not because of love. But, for me I prefer to choose true love than money because we can find money anytime but it is hard to find your true love and you found your true love once in a life time. And I guess money can buy love but not happiness.
@biman_s (1060)
• India
27 May 09
Money can give a lot of things but if you get someone to love using money then my friend its not love. Therefore, no one can buy love. People who marry rich people dont always do it because of money because they think that they will not be having any problem maintaining a family. There are some who marry or love rich guys just because they are greedy and need money.
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@dhanyatnair (23)
• India
27 May 09
That is not true. Money cant buy love, but when we love we should also think of our future. When loves comes everything comes, but if there is no love then there is no use of any wealth or money..
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@laine17 (17)
• United States
28 May 09
Money doesn't buy love, any more than it buys any other emotion. What it can do is make love easier to sustain. I mean if you're poor and in love, well, love won't pay the rent, buy diapers, or keep food on the table...only money does that. So regardless of the fact that no, love can't be bought, I think long term happiness often depends upon money. I don't mean you need to be rich to stay in love, i mean money is a necessity and without it, everything in your life is more difficult.
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@getitok (278)
• China
29 May 09
I think money can buy happiness easier than buy love.Isn't it happy that a woman/man try to please you even her/his purpose is for getting more money from you? But money is money, not love, even someone makes you feel happy, you may eventually find out it is not love. Love is hard to buy, no matter from a man or a woman.
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
29 May 09
well i certainly don't believe that money can buy love. yes some people married for money but that doesn't mean they love their spouse. it's just a bought marriage which will fall apart the moment the money is gone. love is a feeling which either you do have or you don't. we stand by our loved ones no matter what happens. so nope, money can't buy love but almost everything else. cheers
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
28 May 09
Hello jlovetin,
Money can't buy love. Even if you get to buy love with money, I can assure you it is not a true love. Love is blind and people can do anything to get love including like you said, to buy love with money. But true love is hard to get. I don't say money is not important but money is not everything in life. You can' t buy happiness with money.
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@4my1nonly (352)
• Philippines
27 May 09
hi jlovetin, for me it really depends to the person if she/he wanted to sell his/her love...as you've said they are just being practical but it's not the true love they got,,it's really different...and not only woman involve in that kind of situation, there are some guys/boys too... keep smiling...
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@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
28 May 09
I think people are attracted to people with money. They know it can give them security and comforts that they might not have otherwise. I don't think money can buy love though. If you go after somebody because they have money, you might fall in love with them. Or, you might spend your life having nice things, but have a hole in your heart because you have never experienced true love. Personally, I would choose true love over money.
@mgraham126 (156)
•
28 May 09
To quote the Beatles they say money cannot buy love but I am sure it helps
mgraham126
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@jugsjugs (12967)
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28 May 09
A lot of men try to buy love,as they do not know any other way to show love.I think women who string men along just to get what they can are nasty and they may as well sell them selves.I had a friend once who took every man for every penny she could,shes not my friend now.You can not buy some ones love.
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@sway2513 (50)
• United States
28 May 09
This is a topic my friends and I discuss a lot. They tease me about being a gold digger, but I'm not looking for a million air or anyhthing. But lets face money problems is the number one cause for divorce, so i figure if I'm going to get married one day it will be to someone who is at least finacially set. Tjen there is the topic of kids, I do not mind working & helping out with the bills, but if my husband wanted to have children I would want the option to be a stay at home mom. So I dont think money can buy you love, but I do think it is more important then love. Love....true true love...the kind that makes you act like a teenager...that does not last forever, so i would choose to marry i guy i liked with money over i guy i loved with no money.
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@frenchysboutique (113)
• United States
28 May 09
I think people are trying harder now at relationships than they had before because of the economic times. I know where I live, there use to be alot of wealth because of the Real Estate markket but now the wealthy have lost a lot. If they didn't have a true love by their side, they are finding these partners are leaving them in the dust to find the next money bags. Not right at all. It's for better or worse. On the other hand you find couples who are struggling and working on their problems that may have made them walk out the door before, but because they can't survive financially on their own, they are making it work out. I think sometimes we have to get back to the 1950's and work a little harder after making a committment. It's not easy and anyone who says it is, is full of rubbish. A relationship is a full time job, and like a job, there are good days and bad days. But if you love each other, that is the glue that will hold it all together. What is good fortune?? I think it is a good life and that is not necessarily flooded with money. Just my opinion. I have found an awful lot of unhappy wealthy people out there.
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@fan2009 (121)
• China
28 May 09
yes,nowadays some practical girls choose their marriage based on money.or even for money they will be sexal partners with rich people(companion to the rich).Rich people bring good fortune for them,famous car,expensive house and everything they like.These girls say they won't make so much money in all thier lives.So it is no bad to conpany the rich.As to real love,it is nothing but comfortable life,without money we can't live comfortably.
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@naushimp (33)
• India
28 May 09
Hi there,
You cannot buy love for money.you can buy a women sometimes or win a life partner with the money . But LOVE thats a different matter altogether, Thats coming from some ones heart and soul and you cannot conquer it with money. All the rest is just adjustment for practicality
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@deborahwd (105)
• United States
28 May 09
Hello and how are you on this fine and beautiful day, Happy and in good health I hope, I really don't see how anyone can be happy with the money, Well, I no it pays the bills and yes it is things you need, but to use someone for money no, It will not make you happy, there is nothing like haven that someone you love to share life with you, laughter, tears, funny, scarey, I mean life is just to short to only want to be with someone for there money. It is the inner beauty that matters to me, then again there are a lot of ladies that feel it is to easy to use what they have to get what they want. And if men feel that is the way to go well, then if that is what makes you happy well then may it be but when you get burned we really just don't care to hear about it. It can go both ways, You have men that seem to think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, and will to give up there family for it. Then again you have others out there that treat others like a jar of jelly beans I have got to try that one, Well, Life is to short for others not to care about someone for them and not what they can give you. Love, faith and trust is what it's all about
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@cyberlover (6)
• China
28 May 09
Facing feeling of love , wo are not merchants. we can buy many things with MONEY indeed.for firendship,familyrelation and love,i consider money is useless!!!I hope my fiancee isnt moneylover really, otherwise,what's a pity!
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@Muffyy (12)
• Australia
28 May 09
I choose my heart over wealth, I'm a woman and I believe that money means nothing in the scheme of life. You'll be damn miserable if you marry someone just for their money especially if you want love and know that there is probably someone out there for you that would love you right now and you could love, money or not.
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