Are you happy of having met a special person u cannot have?
@LightninStrike (5915)
Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
June 4, 2007 5:26pm CST
I have met such kind of person, well more than special really, and i don't regret. Things are the way they are. Both me and that person now have part of each other with us, and that will never change. As childish or naive as it sounds, i firmly believe it won't change. So how could i regret?
what do you think about these kind of situations?
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@Superfluous (284)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
I can relate with you since I have a special person too but then I couldn't have him. :( He knows how I feel bout it though. He just couldn't love me back like how I love him. Its really sad and like disappointed somehow. Though he likes me too. It really hurts even just to think about him even hurts when I think I just couldn't have him, stay with him, date with him or do anything with him. :( But I never regretted showing how I truly feel for him that I really showed him how I care and love him. Since I don't really like to lie myself and that I don't want to be a prisoner, unable to free my love for him. I can't just keep it inside and keep it a secret forever. But it still feels great to love him though couldn't be loved back in return. It's better that way, since I am free with my feelings. :) And I never regretted anything about it.
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@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
6 Jun 07
beautiful post superfluous, thank you really. Best response for you. Anyway my case is different to yours. My love was corresponded by the other person. It was the circumstances that made it impossible...sometimes love is not enough hon. Anyway I'm glad he has been respectful and kind with you, and that you've been honest with him and with yourself, i think that's the best way you could have done things.
@Superfluous (284)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
Thanks! I appreciated it. :) I think there are circumstances too thats why it became impossible for us to go for a relationship.. maybe its still not the time, or it really isn't. but still, fight for it if you're not fighting alone. Good luck! :)
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
5 Jun 07
hmmmm... complicated.... I'm not sure how I would feel. If happy for knowing a person I can't have or mad and sad because it was not in my reach.
I suppose that it has its positive side but I wonder if it would leave me a bit unfulfilled for quite awhile, thus preventing me from being completely happy with the situation.
It requires a complete turn of emotions and a different reading of something that made me happy as it was. Not easy.
Then again I certainly would be able to keep with me all the positives from knowing such a person which could make things a bit easier.
still... I don't know, my friend, to be honest I would prefer not to be in the situation where I would have to consider the question LOL But I'm getting older and cynical.. when I was your age I would probably feel exactly like you :)
@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
5 Jun 07
Well rom a rational point of view, if you could foresee what would happen i think nobody would do it. What i am trying to say is that once it's happened, when you take a look back, some people might regret, but i don't, and i hope that within some time when a bit more time has passed i can look at it and smile and feel how some feelings will never completely fade away, without feeling pain for it, you know what i mean?
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@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
I do understand you. And I think that if it happened to me, in the end I would be happy that I have met this special person, regardless of the outcome.
It's easy to think about it backwards. "hmmm if I knew this was going to happen I could choose differently " but in real life things do happen without planning most of the times and it's up to us to take something positive from the results - or not.
If I look back there are a few things that I might have done differently - ok, more than a few LOL - but I don't regret them. I learned from them even when they weren't completely positive. I took something from them, so they were never a waste.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
8 Jun 07
Well yes i did meet a special person that i can not have.
We did and do have a special connection, but each one of us do have his own life frame that would not change.
It can change but we both agreed that we do not want to change it, because it would hurt alote of people that we love so much.
I am glad that i met this person, he is a loving, interesting person, that makes me laugh and think.
@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
9 Jun 07
thanks for sharing lira, i know it's hard, but i'm glad you're dealing fine with it. Hope it keeps like that. thanks for replying.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yes, happy in a sense of meeting that special person in your life and that they made a great impact into your heart the very moment you know the person although the fact is that you know yourself that you cannot have the person in your life not unless you're still free, but when it comes that you already have a commitment towards somebody else then it's another story to tell. :-)
@dhvani_ant (63)
• India
5 Jun 07
i have gone thru this it makes me go mad bcz i knw tat i lov this person but i cant have him in my life bcz i am already in a relationship wid omeone else...and this econmd person loves me more than his life and i cant hurt him in anyways..i dont want to be selfish ...i knw tat the first person loves me but he'll never admit it bcz he is my best frnd and knws tat i am already in a relationship...
i dont want to loose him but somewhere in my life i am goin to loose him..i dont regret it bcz i knw now tat wen u love someone its not necessary tat person shud b wid u..
i am happy wid the person who loves me more than his life..and i knw i'll be happy in my life..if u can help me wid my situation then do giveme suggestions
@devilinu (105)
• India
7 Jun 07
yup...once....i knew that instance that things will never work out....so i decided to remains frnds no matter wat....life moved ahead...n both of us are happy with the way life turned out....but she was really special...jus perfect.....no regrets...instead m happy i met her....
rather than gettin depressed i smile wen i think of her...
@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
7 Jun 07
good devil, im glad u two managed to get over it without losing the good you two had.