How to deal with seperation ,Divorse,Lonliness

If you still have feelings for your wife, I wouldn't go about looking for someone else just yet. That's just setting up for disaster. Instead, focus on your kids and moving on with your life. When the time's right, you'll find someone-usually when you're not looking for it. Good luck-and believe me, it will get better and easier to move on, just takes time :)

Do you miss your wife or do you miss the woman touches that were there and are not now?the reason i ask is you also say there is no way you could ever be with her again. As for the rest of you question again you seem to want a woman because you are lonely and you believe that you kids need a womans touch in raising them. If you could see that from the other side of the coin I want a man because I am lonely and my 3 kids need a daddy to be there for them, Can you see a lot of men lining up at my door. I can't because you are looking to USE a woman, at least you did not in one instance say what you would be able to provide for her. you have made this all about you. So I think you have to reread your question and if this is truly how you feel then you might expect that after you are finished using her she might look to some one else to fill her needs. Before you approach any woman I think you might visit a councilor and find out where you are at and what you want and need, but even more how to find someone that will enrich your life as you do the same to theirs.

Yes, to here that my father done the same thing to my mother but she kicked him out. But with 3 kids you should not feel lonely, and there are tons of kids that dont have 2 parents so do you need the woman for the kids or for yourself I think I would give it some time. Good Luck hope it all works out for you.