What will you do if a person cheated on you?

@tamskie (388)
Philippines
June 8, 2007 7:34pm CST
Will you stay or go way?
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11 responses
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
9 Jun 07
i will throw all his clothes and slap him in the face and throw him out.
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• Philippines
15 Jun 07
definitely, i will lose my trust in him/her. maybe i will not talk to him/her again. if he/she apologize and accept his mistake, i will accept his/her apology but the trust is not there anymore. have to start from the beginning to bring back my trust in him/her again.
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I will leave in a heart beat. Obviously, there is something wrong with our relationship and he is going somewhere else to get that thing. So, why stay and put up with a cheater. Chances are he'll do again and again.
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@teleios (737)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
i would leave him, give him time to think about what he's done. being betrayed by someone you trust is pretty painful and they should be made to feel the consequences of their actions. besides, i wouldn't want to continue a relationship with someone who went behind my back and cheated with another person.
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• India
9 Jun 07
In such a case first of all i'll try to convey my unhappiness without saying much or may be by avoiding that person. Secondly i'll make it sure to realise that person that i knows what he did. This is my way of dealing such people and i think that person 'll definately feel sorry. It always works in my case.
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@shanyuo (251)
• United States
9 Jun 07
If my wife ever cheated on me she would be a divorced women, cheating is so wrong in so many ways, espcailly being in the Military the chances are always there
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• Malaysia
9 Jun 07
I'm gonne punch his or her face right between the eyes...
• Hong Kong
9 Jun 07
I would just walk away and leave him right there right then. If a person cheats on me, I don't think he loves me enough and there is really no point for me to stay there and beg for his love. He cheats on me and he should know that that would hurt me and eventually ruin our relationship, still, he is willing to take the risk! What is more left there to say? I won't waste my love on someone who doesn't care my feelings, or think I am an idiot, or doesn't love me. I will just leave with dignity.
@brendakaya (2332)
• United States
9 Jun 07
I have been married for almost 33 years, and my husband has cheated on me at least 3 times, and I'm still with him. I have never cheated on him, and in all honesty, I regret staying with him, because I don't trust him, and I have been unhappy all these years, so I truly regret wasting so much of my life on him. I stayed because of low self esteem, and because I had so many pets that I knew it would be hard to find a new place to take them to. So I wouldn't recommend it, unless you were sure it wouldn't happen again.
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@pradoz (404)
• India
9 Jun 07
Cheating by any person will not be forgotten for a long time.I will keep it in mind in all my future dealings with the person,even then i will do my best to avoid that person in future.But if the cheating is by a friend especially close to me,it will break my heart,and i will need a few days to get over it and forgiveness will not come easily
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• India
17 Jun 07
i ll think of her because i know that one day she will come to me as i am a good guy who never forget her.when she comes to me i ll show her how true my love is