When did it hit?
@djbizmonkey34 (633)
United States
June 9, 2007 7:49pm CST
When did it hit you that you were a mom. It didn't hit me until the first time I held my daughter Alexi. I couldn't believe this little human grew inside my stomach for nine months. I couldn't stop crying for the first week I had her home from the hospital. People probably thought I was nuts :)
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@mflower2053 (3223)
• United States
10 Jun 07
Sometimes I still can't believe that I'm a mother of 2. My oldest will be 2 in July and I just had my youngest daughter on May 31. I can't believe i'm so lucky to be blessed with 2 beautiful girls they are my world and i'm happy that I get to share that with them. I know how you feel. I just stare at them sometimes and want to burst with happiness.
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@patgalca (18363)
• Orangeville, Ontario
10 Jun 07
Hello. I have a 10 year old and a 14 year old and I still find it hard to believe that I am a mother. These two beautiful, smart, athletic, talented girls are MY daughters? Wow! What did I do to make two great kids turn out like this? I think it have finally hit, maybe the last couple of years, but there are still times of disbelief that I am a mother. I feel like a kid playing make-believe sometimes. I told my mother that and she said she felt like that for years. I think it's pretty normal.
I remember when my 14 year old was one year old. It was just her a me as I was a single mother. I remember telling someone that I was so in love with her. The friend on the other end of the telephone line (also a mother) was silent. I thought she must have thought me nuts to use those words "in love". But I have since heard many other mothers say the same thing.
God certainly does make miracles.
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@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
10 Jun 07
You cant believe I am a mom too even after I had her I was in amazement that this beautiful little thing grew inside of me and she was going to change my life for the better.
I think the first real time it hit me was when we were in a store and she was calling me that beautiful word "MOMMY" and I just looked at her and realized yep shes right im her mommy. Its funny now because when we are in any stores and I hear kids calling out Mommy im always looking to see who is calling me :)
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
11 Jun 07
it really hit me the 2nd day. we were in the hospital room and it was my first day out of bed. so i was in the glider, watching tv and rocking him.
i was talking to him and he looked up at me and the look on his face was a look of recognition... like he was saying "you're the mommy-person!" i melted.
@djbizmonkey34 (633)
• United States
12 Jun 07
It's amazing how little they are and they can just figure out who you are an how much the love you.
@Amstardam (1348)
• United States
10 Jun 07
It hits me harder everyday as I listen to him scream nonstop. Do they ever stop screaming????
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@Amstardam (1348)
• United States
10 Jun 07
Sorry, I was having one of those "terrible, horrible, no good, very bad" days. I have one of the greatest kids in the world. He smile brightens up the room and his laugh just warms your heart. He's just 10 months but I can already tell how sensitive and caring he is. He is very observant and loves people. I love my little boy!
@djbizmonkey34 (633)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I feel sometimes the same way you do. When Alexi is just crying and doesn't stop I just get so angry with myself and I think I'm a bad mom.
@LadyDulce (830)
• United States
14 Jun 07
LOL, it still hasn't hit me yet! Though for the first month or so, I was shell-shocked. Every once in a while I still break down when I look at him or think of him. It's an amazing thing.
Blessed Be
@JeanMa (6)
• United States
10 Jun 07
I had a very hard pregnancy and when I gave birth I was suffering from deep depression, then I had postpartum depression on top of it.. I did things automated for a while.. I was a little disconnect from my daughter.
I took care of her and she was fine and healthy.. but I felt like I was just a milk producer for her and a caregiver.. I didn't feel like a "mom".. A few month later she was diagnosed with Granuloma Eosinophilic, is a rare case of cells going crazy and eating anything in sight.. in her case it was her skull.. It was treated as a cancer, because is so rare that is the only treatment they had. She had 60% fatality chances.
When I was driving home the night the doctor told us, I had to stop on the side of the road crying and that was the day when I felt like a Mom. 1.5 years after she was born. (btw she is a happy healthy 6 year old now)
@djbizmonkey34 (633)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I'm so glad to hear that your daughter is doing well. It's amazing what ids can do these days huh?