Hard and Easy to Get Lover...
By add_im
@add_im (2712)
Philippines
June 9, 2007 10:49pm CST
When it comes to a love relationship like courtship or liking someone; are you that kind of person that is very much easy to fall or developed for someone or not at all.
I may intend to ask you all this question...'Are you a hard to get person lover' but easy to love or an easy to get person but hard to love?
Please do share your thoughts. Thanks!
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8 responses
@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
10 Jun 07
I can be very easy or very hard. That depends on the connection that i feel with the other person and the chemistry...there has to be that spark in the air. I try not to be fully accessible right away, because i like to know who i am dealing with first...but when i met this person with whom chemistry was perfect since day one, connection was full, atraction was mutual, and love too...then in this case i guess i turned into the easy category LOL.
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@LightninStrike (5915)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
10 Jun 07
Anytime add :)
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
LOL :-), which is for you can it be really turned out your category that way when you allowed it too:-)
Anyways, you have the points there and true chemistry and connection between you two is a must so important to each individual when it comes to finding love. Thanks for sharing.
@money_maker01 (1097)
• Malaysia
10 Jun 07
To be very honest, I'll fall in love in some men for the first site but I re think once again, "is this what I am looking for?" So it just like fall in love for 2 minutes. Lol!!Actually it just fall in love for fun. I have my own target for my Mr. right, it's like for my own satisfying but it's more on the true love and the happiness for ever after. Although I know we won't get our Mr. Right for 100% (our dream criteria on the Mr. right)but I hope I'll get the Mr. Right for 95%. He he he.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing money_maker01, that is okay for as long as you have your own limitation finding Mr. Right...he may not be as 100% Mr. Right you are looking for but at least, you have tried finding him in your own criteria lists and yeah, you will soon to get Mr. Right for 95% at least, LOL :-)
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
I think I am a hard to get lover. I remember having a suitor when I was 16 years old who courted me for over a year. LOL! When he left, he promised that he would come back and win me somehow, but when he came back, he found that we really were not suited for each other. The shortest time that one has to court me was 2 months and I guess that made me so old fashioned. I don't really know if I am hard or easy to love. People usually find me to be a person with strong personality that they would usually not like me or feel threatened with me during firt meeting. However, I had 3 experiences wherein in a classmate, colleague and a friend fell for me after we got close. But those 3 times never even got first base with me because all I wanted was just friendship and I was too immature then to even think of having such a serious relationship.
@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. That's just good of what you just did to your suitors...let them wait for your answer until you decide to accept their interest in you :-), you will see then if they're really serious about you and to win your love would be their greatest dream they ever achieved, so to speak. I have a smiled while reading your response as to what I remember my past story in life before as well. :-)
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@derek_a (10874)
•
10 Jun 07
I like to know people as they are and when I have fallen in love, it has always been more or less instant. I have known straight away, although sometimes I have held back until I was sure the other person felt the same way.
Nobody's ever said that I am a hard person to love and I wouldn't know if this was true or not. When I think of myself, I think maybe I am, but of course I cannot be sure on that.
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@add_im (2712)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and yeah I agree it's when we can truly let out our feelings and let it be known to the person you have fall for love to when you can be sure that the other person felt the same way for you, and that's a good thing because as like you said nobody's ever said that you're a hard person when it comes to love and that's indeed a great thing for you. :-)
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@imalady_me85 (218)
• Philippines
10 Jun 07
im the type who easily fall in love but sometimes a hard to get one....
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@fleur_petal (883)
• India
10 Jun 07
well it depends in my case the guy whos asking me out. if the guy is cute, lovable and if evn i hv a crush on him or somthng thn i m very easy to get. but if the person is like irritating i ll be the mst difficult person around him!
