Will you leave someone you love for money ??

Hello,mimpi1911,if i really love someone,i do not mind him poor,i can still be with him even we have simple life,we do not need a lot of materials but we can still be happy. I will not leave my love one for another guy just because of money.Money cannot buy love,if you are with a guy who i do not love,it will be meaninless.

no never .. i would never do such a thing.

Hi mimpi,I think the answer lies in your post itself.That is,she apparently posed to be in love with the poor guy.Had she been in love, she would never have left him for money.I think she has no belief in herself either.Had she believed in herself,she would be confident of earning decent money for living a comfortable life.There was no need for her to be a toy of some guy she doesn't love,just for the sake of money.Money in itself is nothing,but a facilitator of many other comforts,which we call happiness.But no amount of money is gonna buy her true love,and so,ultimately she would be so unhappy.I think she did a bad bargain.I can't and would never do that for money.I know I'll be capable of meeting my needs and thankfully I won't be using myself or my would be partner for money.

she will find out very very soon just how important that money really is. i would never leave my husband for money. when my husband was in iraq he asked me if i was sure i didn't want him to relist in the army because if he did while he was in iraq we would of gottin enough money to buy a brand new truck with cash. still if he relists they will give him a bonus that we could really really use but i am not willing to give up the man i love for money because i know if he was to sign them papers he would be sent back to war and whats to say i would get him back the next time. its not worth the money. she will find out that all the money in the world isn't gonna make her happy if she don't love the person shes with.

I am sorry to say that your friend did not make a wise choice if she loved the first man. Money can buy material things, but never, ever love and happiness. Yes in the beginning, she may be happy with all her new found money, but in the end, her heart will ache. I think chossing money over love is always wrong, but especially in this case, as she has not only hurt herself in the long run, she has hurt the man she was with for 8 years.

I could always found money everywhere but finding love and leaving it for money's sake, kinda weird but it's common nowadays. For me, no matter how poor i will be but i'd rather be the man i wanna be than being with the money with noone to be.

I wouldn't, I've never minded what a person has just who the person is. I've been with Shrek almost 8 years and jsut sort of expect to carry on, I'm far too lazy to think about a trade-in. What we have to remember is that although money doesn't buy happiness it can make being miserable a lot more comfortable. Maybe she loves the new one in a new and deeper way and the money was not involved in her deision?

I would never live my love because of money. I never thaught of it and i never will. Ofcourse people can not live out of air..Lol. But two normal people can live normally. I do not know why she did it, but maybe there are more reaons that you do not know. Because this sounds too strange to me.

What is love? What is money? Why should one be more important than the other? I am suspecting though that for the case of your friends, there are other factors involved. It may look like a pure case of money, and she might even insist this is so, but I am still guessing that there are other factors involved that are not out in the open. Well I wouldn't care about others. Let others do what they want. When I make my own choices, I also hope others respect my decisions. Well, too bad for them if they don't lol. :P

I guess it depends on how rich he is. Sounds bad but if I have chemistry with him I dunno what I would do . It depends on the circumstances. I would have to be attracted to him as well.

As a man I wouldn't choose a rich woman over someone I love. I'd rather have long than marry out of money. I mean, sure it would be nice to be rich but it won't guarantee being happy or anything.

i think if it me i wont do that becuz money is not everyting. she shouldnt leave the one she loved for money becuz she might regret it later in life. She will get the money but not the love that she wanted to have for her life.

Absolutely now. I could never, ever do that.

i would leave someone i been dating for a cuple of months for money like somebody offer me a sum of money but never to get married to them for money specially if i been dating them for a while thats dirty

If you ask about my personal opinion I'll never do such a thing but I can't know why your friend did.Maybe she thought if the boy loved her will not wait 8 years to get married,or she fell so big disappoint from him and thought that love not everything so lets money be. If she did only for the money ,what can I say except that even if you have all the money of the world you can't buy happiness or love.

is this what she told you that she left her past boyfriend just because he was not rich and she met with a richer man?? or is this what people are saying after seeing she broke her previous relationship and married with a different man?? I mean, my friend, unless we have her own words, we cannot say anything about her choice..love is such a difficult matter and each story is unique and has its own rules..maybe they had lots of problems..maybe they were not in love anymore..maybe she didn't love him anymore or he didn't..who knows??? of course I hope they thought a lot before closing such a long relationship..eight years is just like being together for nearly a lifetime!!!

Wow that's shocking. I guess I'm just not the materialistic kind of person your friend is. When I met my husband 5 years ago he had nothing, through my love and commitment to our relationship he has just spent £20,000 on redecorating our home and the same amount on a brand new car. This is through money he has worked hard for in the last few years and saving every penny he could and still us managing to have a good social life and be able to buy ourselves luxuries when we want to. He says our love makes him rich and I feel the same way about him. My ex had 5 or 6 houses and businesses and he was never happy, the whole 14 or so years we were together he just always wanted more than life would give him and he is going to die an unhappy person because nothing he gets is ever enough for him. Money does NOT equal happiness. I know people who drive the fanciest of cars and have the biggest of houses but they actually say to me and my hubby that they wish they had the relationship that we do!

No, I won't. Although the idea of living the rich life is very tempting indeed, I don't think I will ever be with someone just for money. Call me romantic, but I rather be with someone I love. My BF is not rich but he is kind and responsible and everything else that more than makes up for the lack of money. Never have I thought of ditching him in order to be with a rich guy. As for your friend, well its her decision and she will have to live with it whether she has chosen wisely or not.

uhm.. i think it depends upon the situation. I don't have the word to say no. But for me I don't and I can't see myself leaving someone just for the money. I can say that money is not that important for the people to achieve true happiness... But we can't blame someone if he/she do that. maybe she just badly need the money not just for his/her own sake maye there's a really who in need. But for me.. you can never leave someone you really love just for the money unless she/he doesn't really love the Guy..

Such is life, including love and money, and sometimes the choice is important, sometimes the choice is not necessarily suitable for them, Happy most important.