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Stephannie @stephcjh (38473) • United States 21 Jul 08

Hi friends. My family and I live in the United States. We do not have a whole lot of income either. We cannot afford to pay for healthcare coverage for all of us. I am taking my daughter, who is 16, to try to qualify for Medicaid...

affordable healthcare coverage

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aretha I am so sorry! I really do know how you feel. Our kids have med. card and my husband goes through the VA so he don't need it but i do. I did look into some insurance for myself but theres no way we can afford it. At least the kids and my hubby have it but i...

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beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 18 Jul 08

If you were to find out good news, who would you call first? Spouse? Sister? Best friend? If you found out that you were pregnant, or just got fired, who would you want to talk with first for support? If I had really...

being best friends

being happy all the time

my life

relationship counseling

the good and bad news

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aretha I would call my hubby first ,then my cousion and then my sis in law. When we found out we where pregnet the second time i had taken the test and then my cousion and a friend showed up to visit for a few and i had to wait until they left to go to my husbands...

19 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 18 Jul 08

Do any of you have an account at myyearbook.com? A friend send an invite to my husband and my husband sent one to me so i could see what it was. He said he thought it was like myspace but i am seeing it more as a dating flirting...

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aretha yeah i wasn't caren for it to much either so i deleted my account yesterday. i do know what you mean about the popularity contest and i wasn't comfortable allow anyone to be my friend. i was also irrated because they have the battles and someone challange me...

19 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 18 Jul 08

Do any of you have an account at myyearbook.com? A friend send an invite to my husband and my husband sent one to me so i could see what it was. He said he thought it was like myspace but i am seeing it more as a dating flirting...

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aretha yeah it was for me either. my husband sent me an invite cuz he got invited from a friend of ours. he hadn't checked it out till last night,i had already looked and decided it was for me but we did have fun going through his last night.

19 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 18 Jul 08

Do any of you have an account at myyearbook.com? A friend send an invite to my husband and my husband sent one to me so i could see what it was. He said he thought it was like myspace but i am seeing it more as a dating flirting...

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aretha yeah they have what they call lunch money. i did figure some of it out,they had different things you could bid on like myyearbook t-shirts and what not. i did notice there was alot of young kids. i deleted my account,it just wasn't something for me.

19 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 18 Jul 08

Do any of you have an account at myyearbook.com? A friend send an invite to my husband and my husband sent one to me so i could see what it was. He said he thought it was like myspace but i am seeing it more as a dating flirting...

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easymoney75503 @easymoney75503 (1702) • United States 17 Jul 08

ok i was taken from my mom do to abuse and since she has grown up some. she wants to see the kids and well i just cant trust her. she still smokes pott. she still uses men like towels. she is all about money. she is very demanding...

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aretha i can't say as i would allow my kids to see her either. by the sounds she hasn't changed at all,if shes still blaming other people for what she did. i do believe that kids now a days need to know about the world and people like this but not this way. i don't...

18 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 16 Jul 08

HELP!! HELP!! HELP!! Last week i had gone out with my cuz and he son is 2 he is into the spitting. Their carseats where right next to each other and her son got my son spitting. i know its gonna happen but he won't forget about...

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aretha Thank goodness none of my three boys have been bitters yet anyway. my youngest is only 1 so he still has time and he seems to be the one doing all the lovely things everyone keep saying oh wait till he does this or that and my other two never did any of them....

18 Jul 08

cherylsousa @cherylsousa (81) • United States 12 Jul 08

So, my husband is deploying with the Air National Guard in about 2 weeks and will be gone for 6 months. I'm slowly starting to slip into panic mode. Everyone in my family depends on him so much, I have no idea what to...

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aretha my husband was deployed to iraq for a year,he has been home for about a year and a half. i know just what your feeling and its hard. i had a hard time with him going i had never been with out him like that and with him going where he was going it was the worst...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

brakes

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aretha my husband was ok when he got home for about 4-5 months then it seemed to just hit him. he has never laid a hand on us and i really don't want to think he would my biggest issue is what its doing to my oldest son. he is almost 8 and he sees and hears things...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

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aretha they do have counselor that he can talk to but he says that they have never been over there let alone know how he feels so he don't think they can help. I wish they would make him go but nope thats more work for them. hes not in the ramy anymore so hes not...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 5 Jul 08

we finally got her back. we picked her up thursday in philly. we left about 11am to go get her at 248pm. on the way there we did just fine but it was getting to the airport. there was no signs any where. we ended up going to far...

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aretha oh good my husband will be happy to here its not just us.lol he was so mad at him self. he couldn't understand how we could drive from OK to PA and back so many times with no problems but he couldn't even drive to the bottom of his our state. so that will make...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 16 Jul 08

HELP!! HELP!! HELP!! Last week i had gone out with my cuz and he son is 2 he is into the spitting. Their carseats where right next to each other and her son got my son spitting. i know its gonna happen but he won't forget about...

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aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

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aretha ok now that you have me crying!lol i understand what your saying and i have tried to just back off. i have talked to a friend of his a litle bit and he says i need to be strong and just let him have his space. i do understand that but as much as he needs his...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

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aretha as far as i know there is no support groups for the wives,it was always told we could talk to the other wives in the unit. maybe it was just me but they all seemed to be stuck up snobs that didn't even seem to care their husbands where gone. i just hope he...

16 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

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aretha if it was only that easy. i would love for him to seek help but i can't make him go and he don't think that anyone could understand and help him.they va doctors said he has ptsd and he gets a few extra dallors a month but that isn't helping him. they can have...

15 Jul 08

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 15 Jul 08

ok me and my husband are having alot of problems and i know its because of the person he is now. he was in iraq for a year and went through hell! now he has been back for about a year and a half and hes so unhappy and misrable. i...

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aretha I am sorry that he has to go. Its gonna be the longest 7 months of your life. If it makes you feel any better depending on his job he may not change much or at all. I know a really good friend of mine husband was over there right before my husband when and he...

15 Jul 08

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