Love conquers all
@Tracylovesadrian (143)
China
June 12, 2007 4:07am CST
This morning my husband and I had a fight. It all started when I said some bad word, but it didn't sound so serious to me. Unfortunately he took it very seriously and thought it really hurt. One sentence after another, and it ended with much anger and sadness. I decided not to talk to him until he said sorry. I was not in mood for doing anything, so I spent nearly the whole afternoon, watching my favorite "Criminal Minds". Then suddenly the feeling of love overwhelmed me and I don't know why. The tears welled up in my eyes and I suddenly realized how much I love my husband and I will never let any small fights come between us. Love conquers all. So I sent him a text message on the cell phone and said "I love you so much no matter what." After all, most of the fightings couples have are all about little things in life. Why hold on to them and make life harder?
3 responses
@anurag4u (154)
• India
12 Jun 07
well u have learnt your lesson. whenever u are angry with your husband, you should always remember, that you love him more than the thing that is causing the anger. it is advised to keep up with gestures to express yourselves better. if u feel, u need help or support, do not stay back, hug your husband and see he will support you. talk to him and settle matters. this way, you realise yourself better and also know your husband better.
@Tracylovesadrian (143)
• China
15 Jun 07
Thanks for your advice. I have learned something from you. But easier said than done, just hopefully I can do it next time. From your resopnse, I can see you are a great lover, knowing how to love .
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
12 Jun 07
Ya, I been through these period many times and i am so tired of it. Everytime we fought over very tiny issue, both felt very unhappy, last time we were no mood at studies and now we have no mood for work after quarrel, it does't worth at all.
Now, we trying our best not to start any quarrel. We know what sensitive issue will get on other's nerve and try best not to touch that issue.
@Tracylovesadrian (143)
• China
15 Jun 07
It's great that you try not to get on each other's nerve and avoid it. But I think if it's something really important to either of us, you'd better try to mention it or talk about it in a delightful way when the occasion is right.
@leslai (21)
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12 Jun 07
I am happy for you. I am single but i have always dreamt of a marriage life that is strong, God centered, full of lesons to learns but strong enough to hold on to the power of love. However i prepare myself now for marriage, i can never say i am ready for it. in fact, nobody is ready enough to enter marriage. There are really things that can be learned only inside married life. But experiences of others may help us prepare or learn in advance. Thanks for sharing, God bless your relationship/family.
@Tracylovesadrian (143)
• China
15 Jun 07
before I got married, I didn't expect much from the marriage because I read many stories about divorce and love outside the marriage. But now I believe as long as you meet the guy with great personality and who loves you, your marriage will be fantastic.
