Tracylovesadrian

@Tracylovesadrian (143)

China • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Does your hubby help out with housework ?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 1 Aug 07

My hubby is a great person with great personality. Sure he has fewer short-comings than I do. But the problem is he hates doing housework, especially washing dishes. I did little housework before I got married. We quarreled...

housework sharing

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Tracylovesadrian Thanks for your advice. I think you are so lucky to have such a wonderful husband. When a man is so considerate, he is priceless.

14 Aug 07

Does your hubby help out with housework ?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 1 Aug 07

My hubby is a great person with great personality. Sure he has fewer short-comings than I do. But the problem is he hates doing housework, especially washing dishes. I did little housework before I got married. We quarreled...

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Tracylovesadrian I think what you have said about the duties of men and women are quite typical in China. I'm not the kind of woman who is ambitious and don't make much money. I guess I will think twice when trying to drive him around.

14 Aug 07

Does your hubby help out with housework ?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 1 Aug 07

My hubby is a great person with great personality. Sure he has fewer short-comings than I do. But the problem is he hates doing housework, especially washing dishes. I did little housework before I got married. We quarreled...

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Tracylovesadrian you two must live a harmonious life! in China, many people have the idea of"men in charge of making money while women in charge of the housework".

14 Aug 07

are you also in worse condition now in autumn?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 14 Aug 07

According to Chinese lunar calendar, autumn has come. I live in Wuxi, China, where it's been cooler these days. I find i find my throat a bit itchy and asthma has come back a bit, not much, which makes me feel aweful. I don't know...

are you feeling worse

what type of asthma do you have?

cameron_0032003 @cameron_0032003 (28) • Philippines 5 Jul 07

i have a bronchial asthma and allergic type... how about you?

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Tracylovesadrian Me, too . exactly the same. It's amazing. I also have allergice rhinitis. How do you deal with these disease? of course the most threatening one is bronchial asthma. I'm trying to get pregnant now, so it's been a constant fear. My asthma isn't very serious,...

1 Aug 07

Does your hubby help out with housework ?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 1 Aug 07

My hubby is a great person with great personality. Sure he has fewer short-comings than I do. But the problem is he hates doing housework, especially washing dishes. I did little housework before I got married. We quarreled...

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Are you perseverent? what can you do to stick to your plan?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 30 Jul 07

My hubby always says that I make plans, lots of them, but am never able to stick to them . I know I lack perseverence. But I really want to improve my English and improve myself in my spare time. The terrible thing is that I am an...

be more perseverent

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Tracylovesadrian It's a pity. but I guess maybe your failure to finish all the things is due to your busy day. i'm in a rather different situation. I can make it if i stick to my plan , but the problem is that when I stay alone at home, i am not in the mood for studying.

31 Jul 07

Do you have a habit of blinking your eye or eyes hard?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 30 Jul 07

Since I was a little girl, I have had the bad habit of blinking my eye hard sometimes. It makes wrinkles appear and it definitely looks bad. What can I do to get rid of the bad habit. I notice some men do it ,too, but much fewer...

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Tracylovesadrian I really appreciate your help. I'll do it starting today. I really hope it will give me a new start.

30 Jul 07

Are you perseverent? what can you do to stick to your plan?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 30 Jul 07

My hubby always says that I make plans, lots of them, but am never able to stick to them . I know I lack perseverence. But I really want to improve my English and improve myself in my spare time. The terrible thing is that I am an...

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Do you have a habit of blinking your eye or eyes hard?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 30 Jul 07

Since I was a little girl, I have had the bad habit of blinking my eye hard sometimes. It makes wrinkles appear and it definitely looks bad. What can I do to get rid of the bad habit. I notice some men do it ,too, but much fewer...

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Do you think men all like to have fun after work, like playing computer games?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 28 Jul 07

For my hubby, the fun is to surf the Internet and play computer games after dinner. I always tell him to study for a short while every day, like improving his English or learning something more concerning his job, but he never...

play computer games after work

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Tracylovesadrian it's really true. at times I just want to be alone. But most of the time, I guess I quite like spending time together.

30 Jul 07

Do you think men all like to have fun after work, like playing computer games?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 28 Jul 07

For my hubby, the fun is to surf the Internet and play computer games after dinner. I always tell him to study for a short while every day, like improving his English or learning something more concerning his job, but he never...

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Tracylovesadrian do you have other kinds of fun after work? watching a movie or something on weekdays?

30 Jul 07

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Do you think men all like to have fun after work, like playing computer games?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 28 Jul 07

For my hubby, the fun is to surf the Internet and play computer games after dinner. I always tell him to study for a short while every day, like improving his English or learning something more concerning his job, but he never...

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How do you work out a plan to settle the apartment issue?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 19 Jul 07

My friend and her boy friend can't afford a new apartment right now. She's living with her mom and he's living with his parents. Her father is a bit strange and is separated from her mother for a long time, not legally, but...

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Tracylovesadrian yeah, the same friend. She loves the man and the man probably loves her that much. She was surprised when he talked about marriage even earlier than that. I don't know what he is thinking about.

19 Jul 07

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How do you work out a plan to settle the apartment issue?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 19 Jul 07

My friend and her boy friend can't afford a new apartment right now. She's living with her mom and he's living with his parents. Her father is a bit strange and is separated from her mother for a long time, not legally, but...

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Tracylovesadrian yeah, she bought the apartment after her divorce and she is still paying on installments. I just hope that they can get along well together and then buy another apartment if they get married. But I think her mom's quite attached to her and wants to live with...

19 Jul 07

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How do you work out a plan to settle the apartment issue?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 19 Jul 07

My friend and her boy friend can't afford a new apartment right now. She's living with her mom and he's living with his parents. Her father is a bit strange and is separated from her mother for a long time, not legally, but...

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Do you think if you were her, you would marry the man soon?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 17 Jul 07

My best friend told me the man she was seeing these days wanted to marry her soon , at least he would give her the wedding ring. The thing is that they have only seen each other for four months, though they practically meet every...

getting married after 4 months dating

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Tracylovesadrian but sometimes we do hesitate, especially when facing something so important. We are torn when having to make choices. We are guided by our sense as well as our sensibility.

19 Jul 07

Do you think if you were her, you would marry the man soon?

Tracylovesadrian @Tracylovesadrian (143) • China 17 Jul 07

My best friend told me the man she was seeing these days wanted to marry her soon , at least he would give her the wedding ring. The thing is that they have only seen each other for four months, though they practically meet every...

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Tracylovesadrian It didn't take this man much time to decide on his first marriage, so probably he thinks that 4 months is enough. Strangely, he is very sensible and handles things quite well, but his attitude towards marriage is somewhat different.

19 Jul 07