Does your hubby help out with housework ?

Hi, well i can understand yoiur state as i also go through this phase, but i am lucky as i have a very understanding and helping husband and he does help me in allthe chores of the house, as i also help him in doing work and am teaching as well, so it is mutual and he knows that if we both are working, it is tough for me alone to manage things outside and in the house as well, so hes always around, ready to help. And i think the same for ytou, that if this problem exists for you, then you should also, talk it out with your husband and maybe hes not able to understand this now, but after you make him reason and see hings, am sure hed realise and start helping you.

I believe that a lot depends on how he was raised. As a husband myself, I feel very guilty watching my wife to housework alone. I was raised by a set of working parents and my mother made sure that I could take care of myself. I was taught to do laundry and dishes, I can vacuum and dust. So watching my wife do it, if I am available to help, makes me feel like I'm taking her for granted. I will be honest though, there a certain chores that she will insist that she do herself. Cleaning the bathroom for example. I have tired it and it did not meet her standards. Therefore, while she's doing that I will go vacuum. It should be a team effort. That's what being married is all about. Nobody wants to spend a bunch of time doing chores. It goes twice as fast if both parties pitch in. Then you can have more quality time together. No animosity. Teamwork. Teamwork.

I am so blessed to have such a husband who doesn't mind doing household chores, washing the dishes, preparing food, doing the laundry as long as it will help me, he'll do it. And because he has more time at home, he does this most of the time. I so love my husband, but of course I take my turn on weekends and when I don't have work.I make sure I serve him a good dinner.

He is helping you in sense that you kook and he eats. You clean and wash the plates and he uses them to make dirty. But dont worry. About every husband is like yours one. You are not only a household wife. You are also a working lady. Your are a teacher and want to teach something about home keeping to your hubby. I think it is something very tedious. He is a man. And men are ruling authorities at home. His duty is to earn and your duty is to keep smart your homeholding job. If you started critics this will cause the clash, and clash between loving couple is very sensitive. Take care. wish you good luck.