Do you believe onlive love affair?Do you ever have it?

In those olden days we used to correspond with pen pals. By those times the society was very much simpler we rarely found pen pals with undesirable or malicious intentions and the most were those mischievous white lies. Nowadays, as society becomes comparatively much complicated, getting friends from net could involve many negative factors. As you had said we neither know her nor see her. The question we always ask is “could she be trusted?” Normally, in order to win love it is not unusual to conceal one’s real face. Nevertheless we do find some sincere friends on net as quite a number of my friends had experienced. I believe in pursuing romantic love in net is like what a Chinese idiom literally says “To speak of soldiers on a piece of paper”. It means it’s merely a paper-talk and the strategy can’t be practiced. What you talk on net are theories and imaginations. You need experiments to prove them. The scientific process is to observe, to experiment before you get the conclusion. So my suggestion is that to observe carefully before taking any serious moves. I do hope you are the lucky guy to win the goal @_@! With best wishes! Happy and romantic summer holidays!:P

You haven't seen her? Not even a photo? I think everything is possible in this world. I won't limit myself to only online dating and real life dating. As long as I know someone, we fall in love, then this is what I called a relationship. And if both person are really committed in making the relationship work, nothing is impossible. I know a guy for over 4 years on the net and we recently fall in love, I haven't met him yet, but I have seen his photos. Also, we have been talking a lot for the past 4 years and we know each other a lot. Still, I plan to meet him in real life and see if it would succeed. I wish you good luck too!

I'm pretty iffy on the whole thing, to be honest. While I can see falling for a personality online, people do tend to act differently than how they might in person, or truths about their lives not given fully or even completely honest. I just have a hard time seeing the whole picture, I guess, since there are so many other factors, even aside from appearances, that you don't get to see unless you're in person--even if you've met them in person before. That sort of thing takes time and I often wonder about certain habits and personality traits that I might discover that I didn't like, should anything ever happen with a person I might meet. Then again, I've known couples who had gotten married...some still happy, some divorced a short time later. Guess it varies on the people who are involved. Appearances are pretty easy with webcams and the lot of technology these day, photos can be faked of course, but you never know. If things can't be sent or received over the net, then there's always snail mail.

I do not believe I can really fall in love with someone on the internet. I may have positive feelings about someone whom I interact with, but since anything can be disguised or faked on the net, I will never know if the person whom I am having feelings for is really who she claims to be. So until I meet her in person and know her real identity, I don't see how my virtual interactions with this person can turn into a real love affair.

hello , nopes i do not trust in online love affair , i think meeting people making friends or loving a person through face is better than over the phone or internet , its just crazy to see a girls picture in the internet and know her tastes and love her

What I can say to you is"good luck",I don't believe online love affair,because the "love" established between the boy and the girl is so unstable that they can't live together for a long time.And it also can hurt the hearts of the two person.The character difference between the boy and the girl is also an obstacle on their way.Be calm and good luck!

well .. i neva had an online love affair ... well . online love affair ... should be taken as a kind of flirting .. one shouldnt get serious with it .. coz .. initially . it may be alright bt after soemtime u tend to .. want more .. u need to someone .. u can hug .. go around with .. n online love . doesnt fit the bill .

I do chat with my girl friend online but I already met her before that. I do have a friend who meet his girlfriend on an online chat.I never thought they will last long and thinking about it I think in our circle of friends they are the longest one and next year they will get married. So I think its up to you guys on how honest are you to each other. my friend never sent a fake pic or made up stories. and in the end online or offline relationships, its the trust between you two that will hold that bond we call love

it is quite funny that modern technoLogy wouLd be a means of Love.. weLL, internet and mobiLe phones are just some of theses devices where we can communicate with other peopLe and eventuaLLy faLL in Love with them.. i know a Lot of peopLe who had a reLationship with other peopLe throught he net and mobiLe phones.. but for me, i stiLL dont beLieve in it.. as per my experiences, it wasnt a nice way to faLL in Love at aLL.. i used to use the net and phones before to find someone and fortunateLy, i found someoene.. yes, we cLaim to Love each other even if we dont see each other.. wierd huh? anyway, the reLationship didnt Last and since then, i never tried doing it again.. for me, the traditionaL way of faLLing in Love is stiLL the best way.. you meet each other, date, and then if youre happy, then get married, haha.. the reason behind my disbeLief in this is that the internet and the use of mobiLe phones as a means of Looking a partner this days is becoming a taboo.. we reaLLy cant teLL who is serious or not, whos fooLing and whos being fooLed.. good for you you found a nice Lover through the net.. but think twice, do you think shes serious? i doubt it..

never,I don't believe lt.you'd better not.

I don't think it is very easy to fall in love with someone that you never see. Sometimes I do wonder how people can fall in love online. You don't really know about the other party. People can pretend to be nice to you as you don't really know her/him for real. It is very dangerous. If you really think beauty/good looking face is important, then this might affect your feelings later when you realize that he/she is not what you expect to be. Maybe when you start the conversation with her, and with those nice words, your mind start to tell you that you do like her, she is a nice girl and she 'sounds' perfect to you. You will never know the truth unless you meet her personally.

ya luv cn happen anywhere!! online or personally... but online luv affair cn b dangerous b'coz u may nt knw whom you're interacting with & d other person whom you're talking to may also b a guy as any1 cn access any1 person's ID anywhere & anyhow.. d other person mite talk as though he's a gal so tere's no assurance of d gender of d person!! so i just hope u be careful in continuing with it.. anyways all d best!!

I believe it.If the two people communicate frankly,they will attract each other.

I do not beleive onlive love affair.in fact,i do not believe love in our lives

no, i don't believe in online love affair even though i have ever had it before... it just won't work out and it is too complicated...

I believe you can interact online, and somewhat get to know one another online. But to have real,true love, you need to meet in person. There are so many factors such as chemistry, compatibility, etc. You never really know someone until you have spent alot of time with that person. And even then sometimes people surprise you. I think there is quite a bit of infatuation via internet and people seeking something they are lacking in their personal lives. It is very easy to be swept away by the ideas and images you get via internet. It is just better to make sure you protect yourself from heartache and pain. Many people form these type of relationships via the internet, fully aware they have a family and/or wife/husband already and the internet affair is just a game to them. I do not say it is not possible at all to meet someone via the internet and fall in love. I just think it's always best to really "know" someone before surrendering your heart to them.

Once I met a boy on the Internet.We talked many things,and both felt very happy.After several days,we met each other.Then, he became my boyfriend.But two months later, I said goodbye to him.It caused by our nature.However,I will bless for you.

I don't beleive in online affair as you don't know what the other person is upto,basically there would be no trust factor in the relationship according to me..Forget about the looks you won't even know whether he is serious about you...

no i dont believe in online love, it is just for flirting, without knowing or seeing a person how can u love him...without knowing d behaviour of person how can u love him or her...

i experienced that once i had a relationship thru cellphone hehe he is sweet and i like him but i know were not serious about it so i am not paying much attention about him..just asking fengbo what do you expect bout her? if ever she's not pretty would you love her still love her?