hatred

@msqtech (15073)
United States
October 24, 2006 8:52am CST
Should we respond with hatred when we disagree with someones opinion which is stated in a question?
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234 responses
• India
9 Nov 06
At the outset, I would like to say that I haven't felt hatred towards another human being yet in my life. By nature and upbringing, I am one who believes love is the cure for all things malicious, not hatred. I do not believe any solution can ever be found through hatred. Having said that, I do believe there is a reaction worse than hatred...and that is indifference. Especially when it comes from people you love, care for and who matter to you. From them, I would take hatred over indifference any day.
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@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
thanks I was bothered mostly by the politicians rantings
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• United States
6 Dec 06
Hatred..No. Reserve hatred for someone who does something really awful *L* In general, we should all avoid hatred. It is a negative feeling that acts as a cancer for anyone who feels it.
• United States
7 Apr 07
I agree, we should not hate others, even those who think different than we do.. I also don't think we should act condescendingly.. There's a lot of debates one can witness where some merely say the other idea or belief, or party is mindless, ignorant, etc.. This to me is never a convincing argument!
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@chamberd1 (240)
• United States
9 Nov 06
It is eigther a statement or a question. If it is an assuming question then I respond with pithy comments that have little to do with the question.
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• United States
17 Apr 07
I think your answer is somewhat as you stae pithy.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
15 Apr 07
No there is no need to respond with Hatred if you disagree then all you do is put your Opinion on what you think I never respond with hatred and I hate it when I get awful ones in my Discussions but I report them as it is against the Guidelines
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@The_Eagle_1 (1121)
• Australia
25 Apr 07
I think that if a person reacts with hatred, they are trying to deflect inadequacies in themselves in the situation you are questioning. It os often good to partake in a confronting discussion as the passion also allows for learning or educating others and oneself!
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• Indonesia
26 Jan 07
We shouldn´t, whats the point? I think, ´diasgree´ is just an another kind of ´agreement´ of not being in a same point of views. So, there is no point to waste our energy based on hatred... May FUN be with you
@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
26 Jan 07
You are right and may we all continue to strive and have fun here. Whether we agree or disagree we will all have our moments when we do agree and disagree but we are mylotters and that is the only way that it shall be!!!
@tonyxxx (693)
• India
16 Apr 07
I think everyone can have different opinion on a subject.How can we force our thoughts on others.In a healthy society everyone is free to express oneself.Further our education also aims at broadening our views and helps us to accept everyones views .If we start responding with hatered then there will be no difference between an educated and uneducated person. Though it is quite common to have arguments over any subject but they should just be a part of the discussion and should not result in bad feelings or hatered for one another.We should always remember that we cannot claim that we are right and the other is wrong as everyone thinks that he/she is right.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
23 Dec 06
No way! We must make our statement and provide proof for our opinion, but in no way we have to make people feel like we hate them.
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• United States
24 Dec 06
I agree with you.
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@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
9 Nov 06
Of course not, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. There is a great difference between someone telling you that you are wrong in order to annoy you and someone genuinely believing that you are wrong. If a person feels that I am completely wrong then I would much prefer that they said so rather than agree to be polite. I do not think that I have ever experienced anger towards someone for being honest.
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• United States
23 Nov 06
Everything you said is exactly how I feel about it.
• United States
17 Apr 07
No we should not, but there are a lot of people that will. They are immature.
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@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I don't think hatred is the right way to respond. Compassion and understanding is the best way when we disagree. Acceptance of others is important for happiness with in ourselves.
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• United States
23 Apr 07
Well you can always state your opinion back and if it comes out to be hateful then so be it. Don't try to do it automatically. And talk as nicely as possible but ou can say what ever you want.
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• United States
17 Apr 07
Everyone is entitled to have thier own opinion and likewise everyone is entitled to agree or disagree with that opinion, ther eis no reason to to respond with hatred, if you give a good enough plea maybe you can make the other personsee your reasonign in choosing your opinion, hatred will not help at all, you can catch more flies with honey then vinager, the same with hatred.
@deepakchp (341)
• India
23 Apr 07
you are the leading members of mylot.how much would you earn per day.do you like to share your success
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@mivarg (277)
• India
9 Sep 07
Why should we. We have all the time in this world to reserve our hatred for the right opportunity. A question we dislike is none of it, I feel :)
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@Island_Geko (3759)
• Canada
17 Apr 07
I have never agree that hatred is the answer it only causes more issues. I have always found that giving honest suggestions and everyone has their opinion and they have a choice to express and we have a choice not to read it. However if it crosses the line then the discussion should be reported in peace.
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@rusty2rusty (6763)
• Defiance, Ohio
16 Apr 07
No, I don't think you should respond in hate to somoene's opinion. I think responding to someone with hatred because their opinion is different to yours is just wrong on to many levels. I suggest responding with questions to find out why they feel or thik that why. Not hatred..or even sarcasum. (which is to easily misunderstood as well.)
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• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
16 Apr 07
Never hatred, showing hatred is a sign of many things: you're not smart enough to give arguments opposing to what the other person says, you're an intolerant, you're immature.....it's better to listen and state what you think...hatred is useless.
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• United States
15 Apr 07
No, why should we hate someone for having a varying opinion than our own? We are all entitled to our own opinions aren't we? That is what a public forum setting is all about after all. Plus if we were all the same the world would be full of a bunch of yes men and that would be simply fatal!
• Canada
16 Apr 07
I don't think we should hate just because we don't agree, thats why we call them conversations and opinions. If hatred comes into the mix it is no longer a discussion.
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@LadyFenix (110)
• United States
16 Apr 07
if it's in the form of a question? I'm not going to say I'm a saint I do get mad and angery but usually I come to a quick understanding that hatred and angery don't get me any where fast well except a nice painful headache so I just smile about it and find the funny-ness in what people have said and then reply pointing out what I have found be sure to let them know I'm not trying to offend but just sharing my point of view and after them I have some ice cream and forget all about it hehehe FEnix