who pays the bill when you and your b/f or g/f dine out?

Normally my b/f picks up the tab and I handle the tip, but if we decide to go out and he is low on cash then I will pick up the tab and he handles the tip. I think its only fair though that I pay some of the times because it's just the right thing to do. It's kind of my way of making my boyfriend feel special. Guys may not allows say it but they like to get flowers, cards , little love noes and presents too : )

Your boy friend is right in his attitudes, Rich or poor it is mans duty to feed his love at any cost. I follow that tradition even now, not only with my girl but all the girls who dine with me.

You have a very nice boyfriend. I think the boy should pay when you go out. And, I think you buying him gifts is very nice. You could also invite him to your house and you fix dinner every once in a while. I don't like guys who are stingy with their money. If they really don't have money, it would be different. But, if they have it and just don't want to spend it, I don't think I'd like them very much.

Hello there, angela2006, my friend. When I was still single and I go out with my girlfriend who happens to be my wife now, I am the one who always shoulder the bill. But when we got married, it is now she who pays the bill, through me.

My husband let's me handle the money so when we go out, I pay for it. But it's his money. You ar fortunate to have aboyfriend who is generous but do not take advantage of it. When you get married to him, money should not be an issue between you and your bf. There may come a time that he may want things that he wants to buy for himself, and you might get used to the way he buys you things. Sometimes, when he wants to buy something for you and you see that he needs a new shirt or shoes, insist that he first needs to buy the things that he needs. When you show him that you are not after the gifts that he gives, he will see that you are not materialistic. He will appreciate you even more. Giving of gifts does not always mean that a guy loves you. I am sure that this is not the only that he expresses his feelings for you. Good luck on your relationship! Stay strong :D

Most of the time, particularly when he was still courting me, he pays the bill when dine out, but now that we're both working, we sometimes share the bill but never had i payed for them myself only

although he buys things for you out of love sometimes you shiould say no because he loves u and he might need that money for other things

The guy always pay my bill for dinner. I always get told a man is suppose to take care of his female. I buy gifts for him on special occasion. I figure if he wants to pay and is offended when I offer I would just leave it as that.

When my wife and I were dating, we would usually share the responsbilities. One night, I would pay; the next night, she would. It was all about taking our fair turns. We have a relationship where we don't care about those traditional "men always pay" type ideals. I used to believe that were the case, but she doesn't like it. Now that we are married, it's all into the same bank now, so it really doesn't matter then. It's a matter of who's paying in terms of which card we are using.

well most of the time my bf pays but some times I take him out and I pay that was when 4I worked though but if I had it and he did not I would have no problem paying all the time

hi there:) It depends, who has given the first invitation, if it was invitation then inviting partner will pay. but usually it's otherwise we pay our own bill or some time me and at other times she pays:))It is never a matter of concern for us:)

My boyfriend isn't the rich type either but he would spend for me at every opportunity.. We often have arguments about this since I don't really like the idea of him spending his money for me...but that's how he likes it.. So I'm very lucky to have a boyfriend who would do these kinds of things for me ^_^

Most of the times, my boyfriend pay the bill, and many of my friend do this also,and it is our tradition, but some times i pay the bills, because my boyfriend do not have enough, and it is so few, he says that it is so shame!

anytime i go out with my girlfriend i pay the bill i was raised to cater to women the men are suppose to be the strong support system and paying the bills happens to fall under that umbrella its on the same side as opening the door and paying for all the dates its just showing that you care about her and that you dont wwant her to worry about thoses things

Most of the time my boyfriend pays for the bill. But there are times that I volunteer to pay but its always he that pays for the bill.

When I was dating with my boyfriend, he always paid for the bills. Now he becomes to be my husband and usually I will pay for the bills, especially in a restaurants. It doesn't matter, as after marriage, I take charge of all the incomes we gain. I am the boss:)

Well, it depends on who's got money by the time we go out. But usually it's me who pays it.