what can other people to do for you to hate him/her?

@chesssy (203)
Philippines
June 30, 2007 5:44pm CST
i think I'm a really accepting person and does not hate anyone. i would even forgive you even if you break my laptop. but my friends tell me that it is not a good thing. but what can i do? i cannot hold grudges from people because i myself do mistakes as well.
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onerygirl
@onerygirl (549)
• United States
30 Jun 07
Hate is such an extreme emotion. To truly hate someone would take alot of energy which would keep me from fulfilling my dreams. At this point, I do not hate anyone and can only imagine that it would take an assault on a family member to cause actual. However, that would only be temporary as that lets the person you hate control you. We all make mistakes......some of us more than others. I am glad my friends re able to accept me for who I am and let things go.
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chesssy
@chesssy (203)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
maybe hate is such a big word. maybe the correct term would be disliking for a long time? isn't it weird how people would hate someone for doing something to others? and do you believe in the reasoning that you hate someone because you see something in them that you do not like in yourself?
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Kythe42
@Kythe42 (1412)
• United States
30 Jun 07
It takes a lot to get me to truly hate someone and when I truly do feel that way, I will probably feel that way forever. Somethings that will make me hate a person is if they have betrayed me or hurt me repeatedly. Also if I found out that someone was abusive to animals, that would really make me hate them.
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chesssy
@chesssy (203)
• Philippines
30 Jun 07
so once you hate a person, that person can never regain your full trust and support?
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Kythe42
@Kythe42 (1412)
• United States
1 Jul 07
It's not likely, because as I said, they'd have to do something really bad for me to truly hate them.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
1 Jul 07
I could probably say that I hate child abductors, rapists, even molesters.. namely predators.. and also am not at all fond of terrorists or any other killers of innocent folk.. Other than that! I'm with you.. except for despots and brutal dictators.. don't like them either..
chesssy
@chesssy (203)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
so you hate them for what they do to others but not specifically to you..
sacrg793
@sacrg793 (429)
• China
1 Jul 07
well, i think i hate other people because they abuse me, or have a strong self-pride and look down upon me or critisize me for no reason, and sometimes i hate people what they are look i know that dosn't offend somebody but i dislike them for no reason.
chesssy
@chesssy (203)
• Philippines
1 Jul 07
so do you believe in the reasoning that when you do not know the exact reason why you hate someone is that you see something in them that you hate in yourself?