Do you mind the height of the person who you are going to date?

@youless (112586)
Guangzhou, China
July 1, 2007 10:01am CST
Frankly, I do pay attention to it. I always prefer I date with a man who is at least taller than me 15cm. I don't know why, maybe it makes me feel security. If we have similar height or he is just taller than me a little, then it's hard for me to attach to him like a bird:) There is only one exception. I ever loved someone who was not taller than me very much. At that time I always tried to wear sneakers and I still thought we almost had the same height. I didn't wear shoes with heels at all. I just felt a little bit regret for his height, but I loved him anyway. Now I don't have this problem any more. My husband is taller than me a lot and I can wear any shoes I like:)
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20 responses
1 Jul 07
i wwould never be worried..i mean...if they are pretty...there is no neeed to wrry about their height.. i dont like them to be dwraf though :P..that would just put me off tall is okay...but middle is probably the best ;x..i guess
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jul 07
I am glad that you don't worry about to it at all. You are so confident and that's great:)
@rosie_123 (6113)
1 Jul 07
It's never really bothered me. I am 5ft 8ins, which means if I wear heels of 2 or 3ins, I am taller than a lot of men, and it really never enters my head. I guess some men may not like their women being taller than them, but I always think that is somewhat a psychological "problem" with the man, - because they are not secure in their own masculinity, and therefore feel "inferior" if their woman is taller than them. My partner is exactly the same height as me - sometimes I wear heels, other times I don't, but he never has issues about it.
@rosie_123 (6113)
2 Jul 07
Well to be honest my height is fairly average for Northern Europe - in fact when I am in Sweden or Germany for example, I am shorter than most women!!!!
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
You are a very tall girl. I have a tall friend, and she doesn't mind her husband is shorter than her. After all, it's hard to find a taller man than her:)
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@usmcsgtwife (4997)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I am pretty short, I am 5'3 so alot of people including my husband are taller then me
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Jul 07
Relax, 5'3 isn't a short height for women:)
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I am short, only 5 feet tall, so most men are taller than me, however I wouldn't want a man so tall that he towered over me. My husband is 5' 4" tall, so it's just right. Before my husband met me however, he always had a problem finding women smaller than him, he prefers smaller women. So we are perfect for each other.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Perfect match is the best:)
• Philippines
2 Jul 07
well not realy mind but, I like dating guyd who are taller than me, in fact Ihave never dated anyone shorter than me. :)
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
It's more likely that you prefer to tall boys:)
@vidyab (11)
• United States
2 Jul 07
Surely height plays an imp role if the guy is short then its going to cause hell lot of problems just like you shared one of them. Plus its embarrassing in the crowd that he is short and you are tall - kind of uncomfortable. Just to add one more disadvantage : - You can't do hair styles :((
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Jul 07
I haven't thought about the hair styles yet:)
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
2 Jul 07
I have no preference in a woman's height as that should have nothing to do with how two people feel about each other. I will go out with someone much shorter than me or much taller than me. I know one of my coworkers will not date short men as they have to be taller than her for her to go out with.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Thanks for your reply.
@lalav1 (1052)
• United States
2 Jul 07
Yes, I have found that I atually like the man I'm dating to be about the same height as me or a little bit taller, but not much. I am 5 foot 3 inches tall, so short guys don't worry about your height if you are short. I feel it is more comfortable as far as kissing, hugging, etc. Another reason I believe I am attracted to shorter men is because I was abused as a child by a tall man. I can be friends with tall men, but feel no attraction. I'm sure with short men I feel more in control.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Thanks for your reply.
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
2 Jul 07
i dont really mind the height of the guy, but for some reason the guys i have ever been interested in have been taller than me. my partner is only just taller than me not by much so as soon as i dress up for a function with high heels (like once a year maybe lol) then im taller than him but only just or even say height.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Thanks for your response.
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Jul 07
not realy that particular. maybe im just lucky that i have dated guys that were taller than me not enough for me to look up lol!
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Yeah, you are a lucky girl:)
• Netherlands
2 Jul 07
Personally, I prefer the man I date taller than me or equal in height. I´m quite small so I can´t imagine if my date smaller than me. And my husband is much taller than me.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Now you had the perfect one as your husband:)
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• India
2 Jul 07
I feel the guy should be taller than me or of same height...I don't like anybody shorter than me..It looks wierd if a guy is shorter than me... The guy with whom i am is taller than me though not that tall but we look good together.....I can wear heels if i want...
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
I agree with you. It'll look suitable.
@abiesm (373)
• Vietnam
2 Jul 07
honestly , I like boy who is taller than me ^^, I feel like he can protect me well but if my bf ( in future T_____T ) takes care of me as much as he can , I don't care about his height anymore ^^
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
You changed because of the love, that's a good sign:)
• Canada
2 Jul 07
Of course. I am 1.70m/ male. I worry that the girl is 1.56m down.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
But sometimes short girls look very nice and it seems that they will look older later than tall girls.
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
2 Jul 07
Well i`m vertically challanged (short ) just over five two .I never considered it for a minute that height would come into it .My hubby is considerably taller than i over 6foot .However it did take me a while to realise my sore neck was infact due to the continual looking up at him but now 30yrs later everything has sorted it`s self out and i have no problems .But height as well as age should not play a part in a relationship it`s what`s in the heart that matters really .
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
I agree to you, the heart is much more important. The height shouldn't play a main role to choose your spouse.
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
1 Jul 07
Most of the guys I were attracted to were about the same height as me. In fact, the man that I married is about the same height as me. I know lots of women are attracted to taller men but I have always been attracted to the short stocky ones.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
You are very special:)
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
1 Jul 07
I have never actually really thought about, it would be like age, that it wouldnt cross my mind..But thinking about it. I would more than likely want him to be taller than me, It might look a bit out of place for him to be shorter, considering that I am short myself.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Thanks for your reply.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
1 Jul 07
I've never really worried about that sort of thing. I've dated people taller than me, shorter than me, my own height. It just doesn't affect me at all. I know a lot of people feel strongly about such things, or are bothered by them, but I just never understood it. I have been in one relationship where the person was enough taller than me that things like kissing were awkward, and I didn't like that too much. It was suggested to me by friends that I wear high heels to solve the problem, but that's not an option for me because I'm klutzy. =p Thankfully my current husband is just enough taller than me for it not to bother him, without being enough taller than me that it becomes a strategical problem! =)
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jul 07
A strategical problem may be something I concerned:)
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@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
1 Jul 07
Yes, a man must be at least 3 inches taller than me, because I love to wear heels. But I rarly have a problem, because I am pretty short.
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
2 Jul 07
Thanks for your response.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
1 Jul 07
I am very tall 5 foot 10 and I always found it hard to find men that were taller than me or same height. Most were shorter. I remember going to a dance and a drunk guy asked me to dance and he kept saying I was too tall for him. Now my guy is about my height. If I wear heels I will be way taller than him. But he doesn't seem to mind. I am like his viking goddess or something. LOL
@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jul 07
You are a very tall girl:) Try to think the good side, you can be a good model:)