vicki2876

@vicki2876 (5636)

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Can a couple have a successful relationship and not live together?

scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7225) • United States 10 Sep 10

I've been in a long-term relationship now for nearly 7 years, but we have always maintained separate households. In the beginning, we did see one another more frequently because I lived on my own, but since I've been forced to...

differences

not living with partner

relationships

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vicki2876 I was in a 14 year relationship where we had different households. We even have a child together. I also thought that one day we would be living together. I wasn't very worried about it for a while because I am very independant and enjoyed my solitude and...

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Forgot my make up today!!

angelface23 @angelface23 (2494) • United States 10 Sep 10

Ugghh. I feel like total crap today. My face is all broken out cause of my girly present and I didn't have time to put any make up on. I feel like so ugly!! My husband is going to bring my make up to me at lunchtime. Do you feel...

make up

naked

ugly

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vicki2876 PS Noticed that you were a red head like my mother and daughter. They don't go anywhere without at the very least mascara so that people can see they have lashes. LOL

10 Sep 10

Forgot my make up today!!

angelface23 @angelface23 (2494) • United States 10 Sep 10

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vicki2876 Yes I do too. I don't use a lot of makeup, basically mascara and eyeliners and lip balm. But if I don't have it on I feel like I am missing something and I don't feel pretty. I know that many people tell me that I don't need to wear makeup, including my...

10 Sep 10

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Talking to Pets...

sjhaeki @sjhaeki (795) • Philippines 8 Sep 10

I know there are a lot of pet lovers and pet owners out there. And each of us has our own way of showing our affection to them. One could be talking to our pets like they could understand us and respond to us. Or we could just...

people

pets

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vicki2876 yes I do talk to my pet cat Baby. He got his name after the lion in the earth children series that I was reading at the time I got him. I would call him Baby and it just stuck. My kids tried to give him a real name but we kept going back to baby and once we...

9 Sep 10

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Are you friends with your ex or not? why?

sweet_pea @sweet_pea (3322) • Philippines 9 Sep 10

I met an ex boyfriend after 5 years. Ours was just a short-lived romance and didn't have a closure since he just disappeared suddenly without saying goodbye. I discovered later, he got his other girlfriend pregnant. I was not...

relationship

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vicki2876 I used to say yes because I thought I was friends with an ex. Turned out he was only staying friends because he thought that one day I would realize that we belonged together and I would go back to him. Well he waited 10 years and then met someone else. Then I...

9 Sep 10

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What do you do or where do you go to enjoy the weekends ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 2 Sep 10

Hello myLotters. The work weeks can be very stressful and exhausting some times. I would keep looking forward for the weekend to come. "Thank God, it is Friday ! " That's the day I keep looking forward to ! The weekend is the time...

relaxation

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vicki2876 For myself I used to "party" on the weekends, meaning I would get drunk,even if it was by myself. Not good. So I quit that and started to take hikes, go to the pool or beach, go sledding or skating in the winter. Also we have game night on sundays where we...

3 Sep 10

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Star Wars or Transformers

devildog683 @devildog683 (74) • United States 2 Sep 10

Which do you think will be looked back on as the better trilogy....Star Wars (the original 3) or Transformers and why? I am torn between the two. Star Wars was epic and set the bar for all trilogies to follow, but Transformers...

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vicki2876 I think that they are very different films. Star Wars has 6 movies and I think they are planning 3 more. Transformers is basically blow things up and have some eye candy for the guys. I think transformers was made for men. Where I think that star wars has hit...

3 Sep 10

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Do you think a step-parent has rights to correct childern from their spouse?

miralie13 @miralie13 (49) • United States 2 Sep 10

I am a step parent and often run into complications when my spouses childern are acting up, and I try to correct them,the natural parent doesnt like it!..keep in mind these kids have never been grounded or whipped or abused in any...

parenting

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vicki2876 I think it would have to be what is okay with the natural parent. I have three children and my boyfriend has two children. He asked me what he should do if my children act up and I said that he should tell me because I did not want him correcting my children...

3 Sep 10

What's the most popular meal at your house?

durgabala @durgabala (1360) • India 3 Sep 10

We relish most of the North Indian dishes. I often prepare stuffed parathas.I am a south Indian and we love Venn Pongal a lot. Please share your family's favorite cuisines........

family cuisines

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vicki2876 I would say that some of that favorites in my house are pizzas and tacos though they aren't the healthiest foods. Also poutine which is likely the most unhealthy dish in the world is french fries loaded in cheese curds and poutine gravy sauce. I am in...

3 Sep 10

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Did you treat your sister as a friend also?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

For me, having a sister is wonderful in my life because if I have a problem my sister is always there to make feel better. My sister also is a friend to me because all the time just like a friend she is always in my side and...

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vicki2876 My sister and I are very close. We talk nearly every day. i live 2000 kms away from her for the last 15 years. I recently got to see her this summer for a few days which was wonderful. When we were growing up i always wanted to be around her yet she didn't...

2 Sep 10

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when is enough really enough?

bevz_28 @bevz_28 (42) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

when you know that you fought hard already, gave everything you've got, and then everyone tells you to give up, but you still won't, when can we really say that enough is enough?

enough

give up

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vicki2876 I think that it has to do with loyalty above all for me. Though I went through a ton of garbage with my partner of 13 years I was loyalty and willing to go through anything just to be with him. Found out that it was silly to do that though, because if it was...

2 Sep 10

where can i find plus sized clothes really cheap?

samafayla33 @samafayla33 (1856) • United States 2 Sep 10

i am looking for really affordable plus sized clothing that doesn't cost that much, got any ideas?

plus size clothing

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vicki2876 I find it really hard to find them too. I go to used clothing places that have clothes racked by size and still the pluses are the least available. My sister got to the point she started to sew her own clothes because it was cheaper and got them to fit....

2 Sep 10

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Wish there were only one spoken language.

prudent @prudent (314) • India 2 Sep 10

I live in a place surrounded by people from different tribes who speak in their individual languages. And I speak in a language different from all those. Though there are few common languages to interact among all, still in some...

language

mother tongue

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vicki2876 I also think it would be wonderful if we could all speak just one language. It would be so much easier to communicate with each other. Though I do live in a community where most people speak fluent English, and many French speakers. I was travelling this...

2 Sep 10

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What is the longest that you've used the same computer?

megamatt @megamatt (14291) • United States 2 Sep 10

Just a couple of days ago, the computer that I have had for eleven years just went kaput. There were many problems but it really just stopped working a lot of the time. Still eleven years, the only computer I have had so it was...

computer

usage

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vicki2876 I had one for about five years but it was a used computer that was a couple years old at the time I bought it. Then I gave it to someone else so I don't know how long it ended up lasting. I did buy this desktop from Walmart that barely lasted the year that was...

2 Sep 10

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Are you still friends with your Ex?

ktmatunog @ktmatunog (912) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

we are. my friends say that you should not be friends anymore. because of the reasons that your heart might hurt more and to make you heart completely healed. but it depends on your current boy/girlfriend, it depends on you...

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vicki2876 I used to say yes but now I say no. I think that there is usually someone in it that is still holding out that the relationship will get back together. I have been burned thinking that I had a real friend only to get the boot once he got seriously involved and...

1 Sep 10

Have You Ever Filed Bankruptcy?

kittenclaus @kittenclaus (1393) • United States 1 Sep 10

We have been putting this off for a long time, praying Steve could find a better job and we could once again pay all our many bills. But they have piled up so fast I don't see any way out. I used to think I'd be ashamed to have to...

bankruptcy

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vicki2876 I went bankrupt about five years ago. Though it was very difficult at the time, I just could not afford to pay all the bills. what happened was my mother and I had a verbal agreement that I would purchase a home but since I was young it would be in her name....

1 Sep 10

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boymelvs @boymelvs (138) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

how does it feel when you find yourself successfully working on a job you've never dreaming of to do?some of us after graduated are looking for a job which related and connected to our education we've been finished.some other is...

education

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vicki2876 Not at all. I went to college for office assistant and never ever did anything related to it at all. The only benefit of the schooling was that it proved that I had computer skills which at the time not everyone and their dog had. HEHEE But now I work with...

1 Sep 10

is it really necessary to use sunblock in bright days?

aayaan001 @aayaan001 (29) • Singapore 31 Aug 10

i didnt know the benefits of sunblock so i rarely use it ,from 6 months im using it regularly , does it really help to reduce wrinkles and aging on skin how often u use it?

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vicki2876 I usually use sunscreen in the summer months here but never really any other season. My daughter is very sun sensitive and usually will wear sunscreen daily. I do notice that people who suntan get the leather look when they get older and that is just gross....

31 Aug 10

Do you think the Acai berry is a scam

jordanss @jordanss (17) • Canada 10 Jul 10

I think they overmarket this fruit! What are your opinions is it worth the price?

acai berry

antioxidant

fruit

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vicki2876 I think it is a scam too. I think there are plenty of purple fruit that give you just the same effect. I pick blueberries every year for FREE and use them yearround in many things. they are great antioxidents, taste great, and don't cost the sick amounts of...

10 Jul 10

Will you or have you....

edwardjoy2000 @edwardjoy2000 (2387) • United Arab Emirates 10 Jul 10

Will you kiss or have you kissed a person who is almost half your age or double your age. When i mean kiss i dont mean a peck on the cheek, I mean a smooch.

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vicki2876 I did once when I was 14 kiss a man who was 28 and it wasn't just a peck. It was stupid though. He was married with two kids and I was the babysitter. He came on to me and I thought he was cute, but I should not have done it and HE should NOT have done it...

10 Jul 10

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