how you feell when some time parents dont alow you to go some where?

i am a mom of four kids, and some of my kids are on their teens already. i dont let them go out with friends too much because there is more danger out there than when i was the teen. if they want to go somewhere we make sure we go together. if they want to bring their friends along its okay. we go swimming if they like to, go picnic if they like to, watch kite flying if they like to, bring their friends if they like to. i know the time will come that they should have to go on their own but not now they are not adults yet. they do understand and they do enjoy that their friends can come along we us. hope you dont feel so bad about your parents... i know there is or are reasons behind why not letting you go with your friends. talk to them it would help. dont always think you should get your way after all they are still your parents. they only mean well. maybe they dont always agree with you but they love you.

I star take care myself from very young.No I didn't left my home,I lived with my mother but I took care myself.I didn't ask her if I can do things or go anywhere. I had my work ,my school and the freedom to do what ever I wanted. it was nice.Now I have a 11 years old boy.We are good friend and I know I gonna let him do anything he want after he explain to me where he want go and what he want to do.If you trust your children and you know you gave them good bases the things are more easy.

I know some parents who are controlling and tell their kids they can't do somethingm, just because they think they have power, Parents like that usually end up with rebellious kids who break away eventually. Other parents like my mother (my Dad was the controlling type) use their best judgement. Luckily I never had friends or got into situations that worried my parents, so Mom never tried to restrict me. If Dad tried, I'd use logic to show him that there was really no problem, and that he was just trying to be controlling.

hi sleepylocket i feel real bad in such situation i want to try on such ocasions but i cant because i love my parents too much .

I used to be a teen that could do what ever I wanted when ever I wanted and to be honest I don't think my parent really cared. I left home at 16. It was bad. Now I am a mom of 3 childern. My oldest is become a teen now and I don't always allow her to do things. We have great communication and I always make sure she understands why certain things are okay and some aren't. She respects my decision either if she isn't always happy about them. She knows I care what is right for her.