I'm 31 years old, not married yet, is it a bad thing?
By pormadi
@pormadi (1300)
Indonesia
49 responses
@suzieque (2334)
• Canada
12 Nov 06
I don't think it's a bad thing at all. A lot of people are single and happy with their life. Times have changed and people are not pressured to get married. I am 30 and am not married as well. I don't want to be married until my boyfriend and I am finally stable and ready to start a family.
@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
11 Nov 06
there's absolutely nothing wrong in being single at 31, or even 81. when the right person is here, then that's the time. dont worry too much about it. dont get married for the sake of getting married. just be happy and wait for the right one to come along...hehe im not married yet, but im happy!
@damonlady (574)
• Romania
12 Nov 06
no is not a bad thing.. better than beeing married and have a miserable life.. if u still wanna be single it's ok... if u didn't find the right woman it's still ok... i know people that are 60 and they r not married and never were... but with all that they r happier than ever.. they do have a life.. only that marriage is not for them.. some have kids also without beeing married... so.. it's not bad
@stelik2006 (463)
• Romania
12 Nov 06
I think is not a bad think.
Enjoy the life and when you are ready and find the right guy marry him.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Oct 06
TELL YOU TO PLEASE YOU: You can marry whenever you want. (Only performance will vary in intensity)
TELL YOU THE TRUTH: It is better late than never. You should get married between 25 and 28 years so that you will be able to manage the family in a right perspective, physically, morally, mentally, psychologically, financially.
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@lafavorito (2959)
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
Not really but consider your age and the age of your future child, I'll make my experience as an example..
My husband and I had our child when I was 20 years old so when I turn 32 our son will be 12, it will be easier for us to travel wherever we eant because he's almost a teenager and would not need special attention. I'll be 42 when our son gets out of college, by that time my husband and I can travel the world without worrying about our child, now that is good..
When you get married now, and have your first child by age 32, when he's 12 years old you will be 44, you have to really work hard until you're 54 because that will be the time that he'll finish college.
@zburrou1 (289)
• United States
10 Jan 07
No. Being single is good. You still have tim to find the right one for you. However I am already married and I am 20 years old. It has its problems but we are working them out. I think that you should just make sure your life is in order before you decide to be with someone else. Plus you have to find someone that has the same goals in life that you do. I was lucky to find someone so early in my life. Don't worry your better half is out there. You will find her when the time is right. Only if you didn't already found her and you don't know that it is her.
@abhishekarun123 (152)
• India
1 Jan 07
its time u choose ur rite match if u r ever lanning to marry in ur life ...
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@karmendra (1123)
• India
10 Jan 07
i don't think it is bad thing, first of all i want to know it is ur disission.. than its ok...
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@popcultureaddicts (524)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I know quite a few people your age who are not married yet. To be honest I'm just a few years younger and could be unmarried by your age as well. It' not bad if its right for you right now not to be married.
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
13 Nov 06
Its alright. You can get married or stay single, it is your own choice. There's nothing good or bad about it only the way you feel comes first. You have to meet the right person. If you rush these things, at the end you'd be sad. Enjoy the time and keep your fingers crossed. Every day is a day that you are a day matured than yesterday. Good luck and take care.
@toonatoons (3737)
• Philippines
13 Nov 06
no, it's not a bad thing at all. if you haven't found the love of your life yet, nobody should force you into marriage. the only way for a marriage to work is if there's a lot of love in it. don't marry just because you have to as society dictates, or simply because your biological clock is ticking. marry for the right reason. marry for love.
