Have you ever been "used" by a person you were dating,

I never have a guy use me for dinner or to buy him something cause I would never do that. Call me old school but the guy does that or at the very least go dutch. The reason I feel that way is that I would like to be with a proud man that would be embrassed to need to take from me. When I was young thoughI was used for other things. I was suckered into thinking a guy liked me more than he did just to have try to get into my pants. If you feel like a guy is doing that to you get rid of him, there are plenty other good men out there.

Yeah i admit that once i dated a girl just because of her money. I never loved her nor liked her but she was gifting me lots of stuff that i could not resist to refuse her. I knew that what i was doing was not good and one day i called her and asked her to meet me. I returned her all her things and seeked for apology but she left me without saying any words. Till today i have never heard of her again but her eyes full of tears still haunt me.