Your Top Secrets - Whom do you tell them?
@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
India
July 4, 2007 4:46am CST
My wife and I have a very transparent relationship, as far as all our secrets are considered.
I confide all my secrets to her and she too tells me all her secrets.
I have three more friends with whom I confide, but not all my secrets.
Whom do you confide all your secrets to? Your close friend, spouse, parents or siblings?
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@ranjeetkolarkar (1595)
• India
4 Jul 07
thats cool....
an old time friend since 30 years.
i wish your friendship lasts forever.
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@brendalee (6082)
• United States
4 Jul 07
I share my top secrets with my boyfriend most of the time. I also have a best friend that I will tell most things to. I don't have a lot of secrets anymore.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
4 Jul 07
Actually, to me, there is really no top secret. Maybe
only sensitive information. Information or knowledge
of this kind, I usually share to my wife as she also
does with me. But with friends, we do share info that
are somehow related to our business, and association
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@3superkids (446)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
My husband. Eversince we got married I confide everything to him. But there are also things that I keep to myself. Something that I don't tell anybody.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 07
Hello ranjeetkolarkar,
I have a confidante and she is my best friend. Most of my secrets, I will tell to my best friend. My husband knows me pretty well too, and I do share my secrets with him. But the one that I don't feel good to tell him, I will just keep it as a secret. If it is for our good sake that the secret is never been revealed, I will just keep it from him. Our marriage life is the most important to me and so I don't want a small matter like that to spoil our day.
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@jonaida (574)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
I usually confide with my husband everything as much as possible. Honesty and transparency is the best policy. I also confide with my sister, I consider as best friend and to my family and some friends but not all secrets of course.
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I agree that our spouse should be those people that we share all our secrets with. I don't see who else would be more than them.
@krislouiebaby (2346)
• Philippines
8 Jul 07
first,my mother, of all the people in the world, i trust my mother so much.we're bestfriend since iw as a kid, i tell everything to her,even bad or good.she accept me for what i am and she loves me unconditionally.
and secondly, my husband, we always tell secrets,and we laugh at it.
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 07
The only person that I trust the most is my husband. I confide everything to him and he is the most trustworthy person I've ever known. I think it is better to confide everything rather than to let him know from somebody else.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I am so glad to hear that you can trust your wife with your secrets.I don't tell any of my secrets.
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@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
8 Jul 07
I often tell my boyfriend, sometime I will tell my mom,too. I never tell my secrets to my friends, because they often say to others in few days . Then they think I dont' think they are my friends, so now I have only one friend, I mean good friend. We don't visit each other frequently, but we are still good friends.
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@crazypumpkin (501)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
It depends on what kind of secret. Usually to my younger sister of my best friend. But not all of my friends gets to be my confidant. I can keep secrets pretty well and don't feel guilty about sharing them to other people. Specially if it's about me.
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@xfallenxlostx (2074)
• United States
5 Jul 07
my deepest darkest secrets are shared only with my very best friends: Jason (fromthemirror), Justin, and Sarah. i tell less deep secrets to my best friends: Gravey and Meggie. Those secrets are still deep, just not AS deep. Nobody else knows any secrets. i keep them to myself. It is harder for someone to betray you if you don't tell them anything.
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@metrobelle (398)
• India
5 Jul 07
I forgot to add that i also share my secrets with my sister.
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@metrobelle (398)
• India
5 Jul 07
I share my secrets with my close friend who has been with me for just three years. We have complete faith on each other.
@sarangsadh (167)
• India
5 Jul 07
My top secrets i tell it to my girlfriend thwe secvrets that i cannot tell her i tell it to my friends and the secrets i cannot tell to my friends i keep it with myself.Cause on just cant share everything with a person.Can u share the way clean your sh!t to any1......no na...heh
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